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discussionDo you have "rules" for sex with women?
Posted November 16, 2022 by velvetpaws in LovingWomen

Sex with women is blessedly devoid of so many of the concerns that male-partnering women have to contend with: pregnancy, coercion, surprise kink, disrespect, painful sex...while some of these could happen with other women, they seem to be a frequent source of anxiety for heterosexually active women, and it's no surprise to me that many of them have either developed or adhere to some set of rules to minimize the above types of encounters.

I'm really curious about whether you all have rules or best practices for sex with women, not adopted out of fear but rather out of a desire to create mutually and emotionally satisfying sex. I was listening to a DarkHorse podcast episode in which Bret said that one piece of dating advice he'd given his children was to not sleep with anyone who wasn't marriage material - not that wanting to marry them is a precondition, but that if you've already identified a marriage dealbreaker, you shouldn't go and have sex with them anyway. I think this is good, succinct advice. Personally, I don't think I ever again want to sleep with someone I'm not in love with.

What about you?

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bronzechivesMarch 4, 2025(Edited March 4, 2025)

"Looking for an unscrupulous surgeon who will do anything for a paycheck to permanently mutilate my depressed 16 year old daughter. Please and thanks!"

CryingInYourInboxMarch 4, 2025

Going to Spain as a minor. Which means your parents are rich enough to stop what they're doing and take you to Spain.

But please tell me how you're oppressed

vulvapeopleMarch 4, 2025

With how comparatively cheap Spanish health care is, it might not be that more expensive (or may even be cheaper) than in the U.S.

MaryDyerMarch 4, 2025

I’ve seen dozens of posts on r/topsurgery from women who were minors when they received their surgery. And they’re so oblivious to the current political climate that they’ll basically flaunt it. And the comments will be filled with “OMG I also had my top surgery at 14!”

vulvapeopleMarch 4, 2025

So the girl can't wait a little over a year?

pennygadgetMarch 4, 2025

Of course not. 1 year equals 50 years in trans time.

crodishfuck this earthMarch 4, 2025(Edited March 4, 2025)

it's so obviously just TERFs on shell accounts just trying to make us look bad /s

TrappedInACarMarch 4, 2025

These surgeons are disgusting. I have no idea how they can be ok with what they do.

hontrapoints😦🤢🤮March 4, 2025
pennygadgetMarch 4, 2025

I wonder if Gallagher's chop shop is still carving up children. Or if she had to lay low after nearly killing that one TIF