Attention Seekers

Posted July 16, 2021 by notyourmother in LovingWomen

I'm bisexual and just live my life... I think many of us do. I won't deny that people tend to deny and stereotype bisexuals. And that they make our orientation revolve around the heteropatriarchy, when that shouldn't be the case. But there's some Youtuber who claims she's super bisexual. She has lots of followers. But she cames across as such an attention seeker. I don't understand why you have to revolve a channel about 'outfit tips' to look gay, to constantly talk about your orientation, when it turns out that you have a boyfriend.

Of course having a boyfriend doesn't mean a woman isn't bisexual. But generally if you identify as bi for a while and you're openly non-straight (bi/lesbian) you will have shitty experiences and that's why I find it very strange she makes a party out of being bisexual, seemingly never having to suffer the struggles of being in a same sex relationship.

I wouldnt say I am closeted, but I don't make gay struggles and fun about myself when I had nothing to do with it for years and when I pass as straight...

Her name is Dutchy on YouTube, and this video is... so cringy. Just her whole body language. To me she only seems to reinforce a negative stereotype so I don't get why she has so many followers.

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crodishfuck this earth

September 5, 2024

(Edited September 5, 2024)

This is how TRA thinks skeletons work lmfao the DARVO and cope

show us ONE thing that isn't based on sex stereotypes. ONE.

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BeachBleach

September 5, 2024

The TIMs wouldn't understand that a woman with narrow hips and broad shoulders is still a woman and still has a female skeleton. Since they're busy enforcing gender stereotypes while insisting they are not, they think all women are supposed to have an hourglass figure, or they're not women. Or if they're Black, they're not women. They have major problems with science and logic and are not happy that TERFs are logical and scientific about biological sex.

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Posted July 16, 2021 by notyourmother

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