You Belong

Posted August 26, 2021 by platypus in LovingWomen

This is something that came to me in the shower today. Our community has been so fractured and dispirited by the trans politics, along with the misogyny and homophobia of society in general.

I just wanted to say, I support you.

From the desister battling through dysphoria, to the detransitioner wondering if she'll ever be accepted by women again.
From the late bloomer lesbian who suffered under decades of comp-het, to the gold star lesbian struggling to find likeminded women in a sea of pansexual bi-het demigirls.
The butches, the studs, the femmes, the tomboys.
The razor-free long haired lesbian angels of the second wave.
The bisexual struggling to find the girl of her dreams in a sea of abusive pornsick males.
The woman who's seen so much abuse and rough times and grooming, she doesn't know what her sexuality is anymore.
I wish you healing and peace.
I wish you all happy, fulfilling, supportive partnerships.
I hope you can all find female community, female companionship. If not in real life, maybe here, online.

I support you. I am fighting for you. I will do everything in my power to build a space for you, like we've done thousands and thousands of times through time immemorial.
I will do my best to arm you with knowledge, so that if a monster comes knocking with candied words and false promises and assurances, you won't be fooled.

Even if you won't do the same for me, I will fight for you. I believe in women.

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March 6, 2023

Amazing!! I'm learning crochet and want to make a squirrel as well ❤️

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Brans93

March 6, 2023

Crochet is so fun and relaxing! Maybe a little frustrating when just starting out but it's so rewarding to make stuff. I love it. But make sure you take care of your wrists, I'm starting to get some carpal tunnel symptoms.

Make sure to post your finished projects!

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March 7, 2023

I've been crocheting for only a week and a half, but I am absolutely in loooove with it!! All my other hobbies and games are on hold for now because I want to be able to make dolls of my favorite characters 🤣 And yes, it's so rewarding to see your project come to life before your very eyes! It makes me want to learn sewing one day so I can make plushies with minky fabric. Also yeah, I am worried about getting carpal tunnel, not from crochet but from my crappy desk job. What are your symptoms?

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Brans93

March 8, 2023

It might take a little bit to get to making your favorite characters but it's definitely worth working at it until you can.

I mostly get numbness but lately I've had very minor pain and discomfort in my hands, wrists and fingers. It's probably also from holding my switch and steam deck for too long at a time. So I've gotta take a bit of a break from doing almost all of my favorite things lol

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March 8, 2023

It might take a little bit to get to making your favorite characters but it's definitely worth working at it until you can.

Oh for sure haha. At least all the online tutorials are awesome, I can now make a little chibi doll!

And I hope your symptoms go away. I definitely know how you feel, I love drawing, gaming, and crocheting. All hand and wrist intensive. Are you being sure to take breaks and stretch your wrist, etc?

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Brans93

March 9, 2023

Yeah I'm getting better with it. Just gotta take a few days off and hopefully it'll feel better.

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Posted August 26, 2021 by platypus

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