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This is something that came to me in the shower today. Our community has been so fractured and dispirited by the trans politics, along with the misogyny and homophobia of society in general.

I just wanted to say, I support you.

From the desister battling through dysphoria, to the detransitioner wondering if she'll ever be accepted by women again.
From the late bloomer lesbian who suffered under decades of comp-het, to the gold star lesbian struggling to find likeminded women in a sea of pansexual bi-het demigirls.
The butches, the studs, the femmes, the tomboys.
The razor-free long haired lesbian angels of the second wave.
The bisexual struggling to find the girl of her dreams in a sea of abusive pornsick males.
The woman who's seen so much abuse and rough times and grooming, she doesn't know what her sexuality is anymore.
I wish you healing and peace.
I wish you all happy, fulfilling, supportive partnerships.
I hope you can all find female community, female companionship. If not in real life, maybe here, online.

I support you. I am fighting for you. I will do everything in my power to build a space for you, like we've done thousands and thousands of times through time immemorial.
I will do my best to arm you with knowledge, so that if a monster comes knocking with candied words and false promises and assurances, you won't be fooled.

Even if you won't do the same for me, I will fight for you. I believe in women.

This is something that came to me in the shower today. Our community has been so fractured and dispirited by the trans politics, along with the misogyny and homophobia of society in general. I just wanted to say, I support you. From the desister battling through dysphoria, to the detransitioner wondering if she'll ever be accepted by women again. From the late bloomer lesbian who suffered under decades of comp-het, to the gold star lesbian struggling to find likeminded women in a sea of pansexual bi-het demigirls. The butches, the studs, the femmes, the tomboys. The razor-free long haired lesbian angels of the second wave. The bisexual struggling to find the girl of her dreams in a sea of abusive pornsick males. The woman who's seen so much abuse and rough times and grooming, she doesn't know *what* her sexuality is anymore. I wish you healing and peace. I wish you all happy, fulfilling, supportive partnerships. I hope you can all find female community, female companionship. If not in real life, maybe here, online. I support you. I am fighting for you. I will do everything in my power to build a space for you, like we've done thousands and thousands of times through time immemorial. I will do my best to arm you with knowledge, so that if a monster comes knocking with candied words and false promises and assurances, you won't be fooled. Even if you won't do the same for me, I will fight for you. I believe in women.

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I admire your courage in the face of despair (the thought of defending those who wouldn't defend you). Much love to you and everyone here.