Homophobic GCs

Posted January 19, 2024 by FutureFebfem in LovingWomen

I’ve ranted about this before, but I’m just so done with it.

Any time a discussion comes up about how gay men didn’t do enough to stop AGPs or whatever (which is fair enough, and worth calling out), it gives some GCs, radfems, terfs, an excuse to feel like they can legitimise or validate their homophobia.

I’m not stupid, I can see right through it.

Now I know that this isn’t strictly related to Loving Women, but homophobia is homophobia, and I think if you dig deep enough, these people are probably weird about lesbian and bI women too.

EDITED TO ADD. It’s comments like “gay men are still men, therefore we can’t trust them”… but somehow their Nigels are ok? Sorry but gay men are my friends, they’re not all a monolith, and describing them as such just feels so wrong.

EDITED TO ADD 2.

My post is about GC discussions in general, across all forms of social media, and not referring to a specific post on Ovarit. As requested by a moderator (and I respectfully agree) please can we have this discussion about the general issue, and not about anything specific here ✌🏻

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GracieM

April 18, 2023

Please note this is quite graphic https://www.salon.com/2023/04/13/beef-controversy-david-choe/

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MissBehaved

April 18, 2023

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That was way worse than I was expecting and what I was expecting was bad enough. That poor woman. I hope she sues him into oblivion now that he's publicly admitted it. Sick and depraved.

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pennygadget

April 28, 2023

The one silver lining to this story is that he was dumb enough to brag about this on a podcast. So the victim already has a confession

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GracieM

April 18, 2023

This is actually a podcast released in 2014!! I am a bit shocked he can get hired after admitting this.

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MissBehaved

April 18, 2023

I'm not :(

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pennygadget

April 28, 2023

I'm not :(

Yeah. The only shocking thing is if he actually faces any consequences at all

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Posted January 19, 2024 by FutureFebfem

Edited January 19, 2024

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