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chit-chatLet's talk about real-life WLW spaces
Posted May 3, 2022 by platypus in LovingWomen

If you could start your own WLW or lesbian-exclusive space IRL, what would it be like??? What kind of groundrules would you have?
If you've participated in lesbian and WLW spaces before the TIMs invaded, how was it? What did you love about it? What would you change?

Personally I would love to have a WLW knitting+crochet group. It would be a monthly meeting, ideally at a local library or woman-owned yarn shop.
My rules would be:

  1. Female-born, lesbian and bisexual women only (detrans and intersex women fully welcome!)
  2. No 'boy talk'
  3. No bigotry (racism, lesbophobia, biphobia etc.)
  4. ABSOLUTELY NO CROSS STITCH (jk)

To keep the TIMs out, we could register as a private organization which requires membership. I think we could even make the membership free, and simply screen new members over the phone or whatever. We could maybe even get away with simply allowing all interested people to show up, and turning away TIMs and men at the door.
Or we could register as a religious organization.

But feel free to daydream, if you don't want to worry about keeping away TIMs. Let your imagination fly. Would you want a WLW softball meetup? A lesbian acapella chorus group? We used to have all these and more, depending on the size of your city. Have you ever participated in something like that in the past?

24 comments

atomic_brunette👁️👄👁️March 11, 2025

Why are TIMs 15 times more likely than cis men to be serving time in the US prison system for felony-level sexual violence, bruh?

Why are TIMs TIMming out during their trials or sentencing, and not before?

Why are TIMs raping and forcibly impregnating actual women in "women's" prisons?

Admitting you have a problem is the first step toward solving your problem.

tacocatMarch 11, 2025

For fear of what would happen in a men's prison. "But I wanted to BE the rapist. I don't want to be raped!"

ItzpapalotlMarch 11, 2025

If you, a male, enter a space set aside for female safety, dignity or progress, then you are automatically a sexual predator, a misogynist and an abuser.

These men hear us saying “No” but their individual feelings are more important than the collective safety of women and girls.

CattitudeMarch 11, 2025

If you’re so fucking tired, stop crossdressing and get the hell out of women’s places, pervert. Problem solved.

pennygadgetMarch 11, 2025

"Wah! Why do they blame the penis people when female inmates get raped and impregnated in prison!!??"

TrappedInACarMarch 11, 2025

Forcefully moved to a men’s prison is such weird language. Do they think most prisoners are just happily walking themselves into prison without anyone taking them there? The whole V-coding thing annoys me so much. If you don’t think you’re safe in men’s prisons or men’s changing rooms or whatever other space then you’re more than welcome to campaign for your own third space but taking over women’s spaces and putting them at risk will never be the answer.

lskiMarch 11, 2025

No, you leave us alone

I wouldn't waste a single second thinking about you, much less waste air talking about you, if you just fucked off and left women alone to be women without pathetic freaks like you muscling in on our spaces and our lives and our rights

I want nothing more than to leave you alone, so off you fuck and I will do just that

bareminimumMarch 11, 2025

Exactly this. I can feel your rage through the screen and I am feeling the exact same goddamn thing.

Wsbfom01March 11, 2025

I didn’t know that women in prisons or female only shelters faced threats from flying penises. One woman being raped in what is supposed to be a safe space by a man is one too many. You and your lots don’t belong, get out.

mathloverMarch 11, 2025

Dude. No one would care if you want to wear dresses, makeup, long hair, etc. And if you play make-believe "woman", with the phony pronouns in your private life - with willing participants only. Just don't expect, or ask, the rest of the world to go along with any of it.

And stay out of ALL women's spaces and everything else for or about women. Because that makes you the problem. If you do not violate the places where you will never - can never - belong, we will leave you alone.

Mandy202March 11, 2025

It's because they think they're so special that they don't get it.

They are not the "primary scapegoat". They are a minor irritant, but also, more often than their numbers would warrant, a genuine threat. And as we all know, it's not because they're trans. It's because they're men.

notapatsyMarch 11, 2025(Edited March 11, 2025)

Yes, men. And what's more, they're unstable men who believe they can be women.

shewolfoffranceMarch 11, 2025

What you're mad about is the scraps of honest reporting that people get.

You're mad that people know your brothers have been raping and impregnating female convicts, that you've been stealing awards from female athletes, and that you've been harassing women in changing rooms.

emptiedriverMarch 11, 2025

This is such a frustratingly deluded rant.

I'm mad at all the negative press

ugh how much positive press do you get?? How many fawning interviews and cover stories and women of the year, puff pieces about the hardships, Pulitzer prizes for offensive books, profiles about trans athletes or celebrities, and even just the crazy agreement to use fake pronouns without question have there been? Finally having a few larger publications dare to cover the majority opinion that physical bodies are still a real issue is "negative press"?

like we're the primary scapegoat

you're not a scapegoat for anything. you're a direct concern for many women. It's a material issue.

When it's sports we're the problem, when it's bathrooms we're the problem, when it's changing rooms we're the problem, when it's prisons we're the problem

Right.

it's always that that we're "a threat" to cis women.

Right. No scare quotes necessary.

Conservatives only view and paint us up as dangerous and unhinged psychopaths and that we're all just deluded freaks!

You don't have to be unhinged psychopaths or deluded freaks. You're men. That's what makes you dangerous or unfair or discomfiting to women. Rally for third spaces to share with women who are comfortable with third spaces

I saw cases of trans women in the US being forcefully moved to a prison for men and one even tried to end it all to avoid going for fear of what would happen there.

Fear of what? Being around men? If that is a rational fear, why can women not legitimately express it?

Just leave us alone, fuck!

seriously.

broccolipathsofgloryMarch 11, 2025

They put so much energy into creating problems for themselves so they can feel like victims. Do they have no actual problems in their lives?

mathloverMarch 11, 2025

They are the problems.

SassafrassMarch 11, 2025

I’m pretty sure they don’t. Other than being the most privileged and therefore least appreciated group.

Can’t get victim points as a straight white man.. put on a dress though, and BAM!! Suddenly they can play victim too!

001HeartMarch 11, 2025

Here comes the wallowing in false victimhood and pitying oneself again. You can't pretend that you don't know why everyone despises you in 2025, TIMs. Stop acting like you haven't seen penis-owner rapists either attempting to self-id to get into female prisons, or successfully self-id'ng to access female prisons. Fuck off, create your own MTF domains, and stop colonising women's spaces and then NO ONE would care about ANY of you males. You know this, but you don't want that. Your fetish/grift involves making US uncomfortable.

Dressed2K1llMarch 11, 2025

Maybe you are the common denominator, loser

SadeyedladyMarch 11, 2025

There’s hardly any negative press about TIMs except sometimes on Fox News, which nobody believes anyway. (At least in the US)

drdeeisbackMarch 11, 2025

Well, prove us wrong. And don't think it's only 'conservatives' who see your behaviour as a problem.

samsdatMarch 11, 2025

Yes, you are the problem, TIMs.

You don’t belong in female spaces. Get the fuck out.

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