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Psychological AbuseMale youth
Just a a bit of a rant I guess. On my way home I've been yelled at by two male teenagers two times this week. Not specific words. Just screaming. Maybe they are the same ones.
It makes me a bit paranoid as I I've moved here and in with my girlfriend last year. It makes me wonder if it could have anything to do with my sexuality and if I should be afraid.
I was bullied and threatened as a kid by peers as well and the fear of specifically male youth has always stuck. I've thought about becoming a teacher in the past, but that's the main reason that kept me from it.
It occasionally happens on the bus too or other public places. Not against me personally per se but the obnoxious behaviour very much so. Yelling, making a mess, loud music and they pretty much always get away with it, because nobody dares to say anything.
It reminds me of what I hate about being a woman. The vulnerability. The being physically weaker.
Anyone else recognises themselves in this story?
I'm glad I had my earbuds in both times, even though it wasn't playing anything at the moment, because it makes it easier to pretend I didn't hear them as well.
Maybe there is nothing to worry about and it's not something specifically about me that set these teens off, but it sure is f*cking annoying. *Rant over
Ps: I hope this is the right circle btw. Topic is mainly the shitty behavior of male youth and how it bothers me, even though this example was not physically violent and perhaps only a minor nuisance to some, it does affect me quite a bit and I simply don't have this experience with girls. The behavior itself generally speaking, but more importantly the experience of feeling threatened by them.
Recently had a bicurious exfriend lead me on and use me as her emotional dishrag while she rode some abusive scrotes cock on the side, so oh boy do I feel this.
It truly feels dehumanizing at times, like they think lesbians don't have the same full-fledged feelings about love and sexuality that hetero people do.
It's because they don't care about our feelings. It's best not to give these women any attention.
I think people aren't use to real lesbians. They look at me crazy because I've never been with a man and have no desire too. Bi girls are the default
As a gold star lesbian, this is exactly my experience as well. Truth is we are very few and are easily outnumbered by bi women thinking or pretending to be lesbians or confused girls who think they're lesbians because they had some trouble with men and think women are oh "perfect".
This entire movement is degrading, and my hope tends to wane rather than wax. I've posted here before about how I occasionally feel tempted to "transition" purely for the sake of acceptance and support. It isn't that different from my days of dating men with the purpose of changing my orientation altogether.
I'm tired of getting kicked out of LGBT spaces for not being physically attracted to trans women. I'm not excluding them from activities, just not being attracted to them.
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This! Biwomen are so entitled beyond belief. They are greedy as hell. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Makes my blood boil!
They call us monsters because we do set boundaries. We say no.
The only way the AGP het men who larp as "lesbians" get to be with us is by coercive rape. Because we say no to all men, including them.
The only way bi women who are in relationships with men get to be with us is by deception, not telling us they are with a man. Because we would say no.
Bicurious? Same thing. Let them experiment with each other. We say no. We say no when another lesbian wants to flee womanhood to play make-believe "man" and have us call ourselves bi to "validate" her delusion. We say no.
A woman saying no is the one thing the world won't tolerate. It enrages men who can't cope with not getting the sex they feel entitled to. It enrages women who dick pander and spend their lives with men even when they have a choice not to - if we are not suffering along with them, the least we can do is give them some relief from their nigels. And it enrages our poor deluded sisters who think we should go along with a life of damaged body and soul to pretend they are something they can never be.
We say no to all of it. And we should continue to say no because yes to any of it only brings damage to us personally and as a community.
Brilliantly said! Some lesbians are amazons, we are not sheeple just doing what we're told, and that is what ruffles feathers. Not being embraced by males or the gbtq's do not frustrate me, instead it makes me think that I'm doing something right. Do we really want the alphabet soup community and perverts to sing our praises? I certainly don't want their validation or acceptance. This situation reminds me a bit of that saying "well behaved women seldom make history".