83 comments

WinterWitchMarch 14, 2025

This 100% never happened. Women do not think about, let alone converse about, trans women. I would believe that one of the women said “men have it easy” and the TIM felt triggered because he knows he’s a man, but everything else about this is a fanfic.

Shot_DunyunMarch 14, 2025

Anytime you see someone telling a story online where there's more than two consecutive lines of dialogue, that story is made up. Human memory doesn't work that way; our long-term memory doesn't record entire conversations verbatim. So when you read this lengthy transcript with long stretches of dialogue, that is 100% made up, regardless of the content.

On top of that this isn't even a realistic scenario. Women don't sit around in bars loudly screeching about how jealous they are of trans women, and women in bars don't then sit patiently while a drunk sex clown delivers a ten-minute long self-pity monologue after inserting himself into the conversation.

Carrots90March 14, 2025

Plus his skit fails the Bechdel test

SadeyedladyMarch 14, 2025

Yeah but trans people have exceptionally superior memories. They can remember exactly what they said and thought about their gender identity at the age of 2.

(/s)

vulvapeopleMarch 14, 2025

Usually when I'm recounting a story, I paraphrase what was said with the occasional, brief direct quotation when something about the exchange really stuck in my mind.

DietCokeAddictMarch 14, 2025

100% - my friends and I are all terfs and we barely talk about trans in real life at all (so many more interesting topics lol)

Carrots90March 14, 2025(Edited March 14, 2025)

Exactly

And we don’t talk about our periods to other women like we have to explain why it’s hard

Men have it easy….is all I need to say to another woman

Periods are not the worst of it, but his dumb ass literally thinks it’s the only thing women have harder than him. He thinks it’s the only difference between women and TIMs

pennygadgetMarch 13, 2025

Try waking up each morning knowing you have to religiously take [insert a ton of bullshit]

Sir, you don't HAVE to take any of that shit. Your bathroom counter is full of garbage you take for entirely COSMETIC reasons. You could quit all that stuff right now and your health would IMPROVE! You waste medical resources and the valuable time of medical providers just to give yourself a validation boner. You are actively insulting every person with a chronic illness who didn't CHOOSE to be on a dozen medications and doesn't ENJOY getting monthly blood work to make sure they don't die. FUCK. YOU.

This is getting me riled up because I can't help thinking of the late, great RunawaySiren. She often spoke about how it annoyed her when trans people called their hormones "life saving care". Meanwhile, she literally needed her "hormones" (insulin) in order to stay alive (and struggled to pay for them because the American medical system treats diabetics like shit). And, sadly, diabetes complications took her life when she was in her early 20s

Trans people who wail about their "live saving care" are the absolute fucking worst. They gobble up medical funds and resources that should be used on people with REAL problems. And they have no shame about it whatsoever. On the contrary, they're constantly begging for MORE free shit and to be allowed to cut in line ahead of cancer patients

Carrots90March 14, 2025

And, sadly, diabetes complications took her life when she was in her early 20s

Girl, you just repeaked me

StrawberryCoughMarch 14, 2025

Oh my god, I miss her so much. I can't believe she's gone.

salty-tomorrowMarch 14, 2025(Edited March 14, 2025)

complications took her life when she was in her early 20s

Wait what??!!! When??

Edit: found a post and some details. Truly tragic.

momofreyrellaMarch 13, 2025

Here here!!

JehaneMarch 13, 2025

Let's assume this really happened. I doubt the two women fell silent because they felt ashamed or something like that but because they didn't want to argue with a guy who was ranting at them out of nowhere.

Having said that, I doubt this happened. One, the initial dialogue makes absolutely no sense. If anything, women would probably lament that men have it easier, but I really, really doubt they'd bring up TIMs when talking about expenses. It just doesn't ring true. Two, that speech sounds way too elaborate to have been spontaneous, not to mention the dramatic finishing of the drink and theatrically walking out the door.

MizunaMarch 13, 2025

because they didn't want to argue with a guy who was ranting at them out of nowhere.

And not just "a guy," but a drunk guy.

starlight_chaserMarch 13, 2025

A drunk cross-dresser. Better off they ignore him rather than risk getting assaulted and then be told by the cops that it's a hate crime to hold them accountable.

CryingInYourInboxMarch 13, 2025

Yea nobody talks about them but us! Lmfao Normie women have to be reminded they exist

JehaneMarch 13, 2025

Exactly! Which is why I don't believe a single word in this posting. The only thing that rings true is his disdain for women and his misogyny.

scriptcroneMarch 13, 2025

Tranfic.

Carrots90March 14, 2025

Yup🤭🤭🤭🤭

Tranfic Which failed the Bechdel test

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MoonflowerMarch 13, 2025

Anyway, enjoy your period cramps, I guess.

What an utterly male thing to say. This man’s misogyny just reeks out of every line in this post, whether any of this actually happened (hopefully not) vs. him just writing out his fantasies about putting women in their place.

horriblegooseMarch 13, 2025(Edited March 13, 2025)

Many people with chronic illnesses have to religiously take a cocktail of medications and get regular bloodwork done to stay alive, and it's not self-inflicted like this stupid scrote's imaginary problems. Cry more, dude.

EvileineMarch 13, 2025

Try having a stupid painful autoimmune disease requiring weekly injections that make gold bullion look cheap.

Boo fucking hoo, poser.

horriblegooseMarch 14, 2025

You too? That's what I am dealing with and actually what prompted me to post. I am so sorry you're also dealing with that.

EvileineMarch 14, 2025

It's the worst, isn't it? Hope you're doing ok.

SistersovermistersMarch 13, 2025

Yeah - How would he even know if one of them is extremely medicated due to chronic illnesses? They never mention it in his story, but what if they're going through a lot, too?

Even if this isn't real, this shows how ignorant these men are to everyone but themselves. Very telling.

And if this is real and his GF is a real woman...I feel bad for her and hope she gets out of the TRA hellhole lmao.

Alias_RosieMarch 13, 2025

laughs in familial high cholesterol Blood draws? What a baby. Get in line after me.

pennygadgetMarch 13, 2025

laughs in hypothyroid

Fuck this scrote. I didn't CHOOSE my medical problems!

spacykateMarch 14, 2025

I have hypothyroid too. Fun fun.

pennygadgetMarch 14, 2025

I have hypothyroid too. Fun fun.

Sure is fun to go from having a normal metabolism to gaining weight every time you look at a piece of food. 😭

spacykateMarch 15, 2025

It sucks, honestly.

momofreyrellaMarch 13, 2025

I have that too!!!

proudcatladysubtle standoffishnessMarch 13, 2025(Edited March 13, 2025)

If this happened (which it didn’t), those two women are even Terfier now. This level of male entitlement is cartoonish.

Also I hate when Redditors write out dialogue like they’re penning a novel. You do not remember the conversation verbatim and you’re not a clever enough writer for us to forgive you. Stop it

quiggyMarch 14, 2025(Edited March 14, 2025)

It reminds me of when Leonard Bernstein published a fictional argument between himself--Leonard Bernstein--and an absurdly pretentious, entirely made-up 'friend' he dubbed "Lyric Poet." Wanna guess which one trounced the other?

Of course, even though "Lyric Poet" was cartoonish and ridiculous, Bernstein made a point of carrying on about how incredibly eloquent "Lyric Poet" was. It's like, dude, you wrote all his lines, jfc...he is you

SonnetMarch 14, 2025

At this pont, my soul leaves my body and hovers somewhere near the ceiling as I consider whether to intervene

Women could be wrong within earshot! What do I do??

Carrots90March 14, 2025

Sir….maybe this isn’t the time…but I can see your souls penis. And there could be some kids around, so maybe cover that up

But, at least you know you don’t have a lady soul and you can stop with the clown makeup!!

realityismykinkMarch 13, 2025

Sure, Kevin. And then everyone clapped.

hard_headed_womanMarch 13, 2025

I don't believe that took place.

atomic_brunette👁️👄👁️March 13, 2025(Edited March 13, 2025)

Yeah this one definitely ends in "and then they all clapped." (edited because @realityismykink beat me to the punch!)

He's a liar and bad liar to boot

JeSoPazzaMarch 14, 2025

The French talk about 'l'esprit de l'escalier' for all the things you wish you'd said but you only think of when you're on the stairs leaving and it's too late.

This guy is huffing 'l'esprit du mum's basement' and it shows.

legopantsMarch 14, 2025

And yet, still, 100% of every whiney little "problem" he lists of his can be instantly eradicated any moment he wishes by simply just not playing this game anymore.

Women don't have this luxury. It's just So Horribly Difficult to be a Poor Twans womins? Then don't be

CryingInYourInboxMarch 13, 2025

Not sure if this actually happened. Definitely sounds like something he thought up in the shower, BUT TIMs do absolutely love interrupting strange women that weren't talking to them and centering themselves so maybe it's true

MadSeaMarch 14, 2025

The only place this conversation happened was in his delusional head.

istaraMarch 14, 2025

There are few things that happened less than this didn't happen.

IdentifyAsTiredMarch 14, 2025

And those women? Albert Einstein.

BlukBerryMarch 13, 2025

It’s true. I was the packet of crisps behind the bar.

Carrots90March 14, 2025

Nice mansplaining skit, bro

Glad no real women were harmed in the making of your production

ALoudMeowMarch 14, 2025

Another conversation that never happened outside some TIM’s feeble imagination.

MignonetteMarch 13, 2025

Well. That's two more women peaked.

JellyfishesMarch 14, 2025

And I've just argued with my gf

Dude was already roid raging before the women even said anything.