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Need Advice or SupportWe broke up
https://ovarit.com/o/Women/103853/should-being-pro-trans-be-a-dealbreaker-in-a-relationship
We just broke up. I feel so numb and logically I know I made the right choice.
I asked him if he would allow our underage children to transition and get surgery if they wanted to and he wouldn’t answer.
I asked if he would raise our kids to think that is an identity that they could have and he said yes.
We had a few separate discussions but I told him; I’ve always been very apprehensive about having kids and that it wasn’t a dealbreaker for me being in a relationship with him but it was a dealbreaker for having kids with him. Apparently his “either or” stance on kids changed and he never told me, he thought I was warming up to the idea of kids eventually because of how I would talk about it.
I know logically that this was the choice I needed to make, for myself and for any future children I may or may not have.
But fuck it doesn’t hurt any less.
Excuse me what
That flag, the colours, always remind me of colours used for baby stuff. Fitting.
I hate that I know that is likely Hatsune Miku... And I ONLY know that because I ended up down a Wikipedia rabbit hole on vocaloids one night...
That aside, am I having a seizure... Because I am reading those words, and can't make sense of any of them???
Trans Inclusionary Radical misogyny is an ideology that trans people came up with that basically goes mask off about how misogynistic their movement is. The idea is to kick women down and shut us up so that they can advance at our expense, and demoralize us in the process so we stop fighting.
One of the most common examples I see of Trans Inclusionary Radical Misogyny is
"Women shouldn't get to have their own sports if even the weakest and most effeminate men beat them." Or some variation of "Our worst biological males are better than the best women."
Another common example of TIRM is the "Women who are ugly aren't allowed to voice their concerns with the trans movement since they aren't feminine anyways. Trans women are more women than you, you've forfeited your right to care until you doll yourself up!"
They seem silly but they're the unironic beliefs of TRAs and Trans people alike.
The picture in the meme is a profile picture from a woman who's been making fake trans content on Twitter. Women who pretend to be trans identified males either for fetish purposes or to make a political statement have been dubbed "Bio-trans" girls/women. Trans people really haaaaaate when women do this because Trans ideology is completely centered around Genitals and secondary sex characteristics. If you have a vagina you are NOT allowed to be a Trans woman. (I believe Bio-trans is actually a real thing that's common among TIFs who make themselves look AMAB with hormones but then dress extremely feminine as if they are HSTS. But instead of calling themselves Bio-Trans they call themselves girl-F*gs. And surprise surprise, gay men and TIMs don't like that either.)
Take the concept of Transmisogyny. If a woman tells a TIM "no" for any reason, or mentions her period to another woman within earshot without referring to herself as a bleeding birthing menstruation uterus person body, THATS an example of Transmisogyny. Only trans women can experience Transmisogyny by the way. No matter how many times a GNC woman gets called Trans slurs because men don't find her fuckable, the term would still never apply to her, because of her genitals you see. In fact to say the quiet part out loud, only people with vaginas can even commit Transmisogyny. If a man does it, he's just an asshole or a chaser. No serious crime. Boys will be boys. TIMs will tell you they urgently need women's spaces to get away from these men, but they will never seriously call them Trans-Misogynist.
So yea anyways I just made a silly meme proclaiming to be a Bio-Trans Inclusionary Radical Trans-Misogynist. Of course it's satirical because Transmisogyny isn't real. But yea hope this helps.
a bleeding birthing menstruation uterus person body
Rofl. Yet sad because it’s true.
To the 99.9% of the population who are not permanent residents of Cloud Cuckoland... That jumble of words means absolutely nothing. Other than serving as a warning sign, much like animals displaying bright colors in nature... That the person using it is incapable of anything other than navel-gazing and getting high off their own farts.
The colors and imagery just further cement that as someone completely off their rocker.
i think it means woman who identifies as a trans woman who hates TIMs. im pretty sure its meant to be ironic as a way of women inserting themselves in trans spaces in the way theyve done to us. could be well off though lmfao
I agree that is what they are probably trying to say... But it is an overall laughable image and message. A picture of a Japanese vocaloid juxtaposed with word salad.
Although I suppose the vocaloid is an important symbol here... Something trying to appear as something else when it isn't even real (Miku is the image used for a computer generated voice, that is even used holographically in live concerts).
Does that mean you hate biotrans women? Because biotrans women are trans women. That seems biotransmisogynistic 😐