The recent fiasco on Mutt Wash demonstrated once again how male lives revolve around keeping women down because men are not self-sufficient, or rather, do not want to be, and taught not to be.
On the contrary, they're taught that being self-sufficient emotionally and to not rely on other people to clean and cook like an adult person makes them a pussy/cuck. They also cannot feel good if a woman doesn't feel bad. Not dominating/humiliating a woman through "sex" or other means for some time makes them feel like they aren't "real men", basically that they're a pussy/cuck. Men have all sorts of insults for men who treat women better than trash. Can you imagine being so mentally handicapped? I believe also that they realize how fucked up their predicament is, at least unconsciously, which gives then the famous male death wish. This is also the reason why they hate the idea of women being independent. Aside from the greater scheme of economy and capitalism, it's insulting for them when a woman can live as independently as they do, but without needing punching bags and servants, which exposes their "natural" sex roles as not natural and not essential, and instead shows how crippled and pathetic they are.
Men's suffering comes from inside of their own selves, it's an inextricable part of the concept of "the real man" that they try to embody. They have a constant need to put women down and isolating themselves from women only makes it worse to the point that they start shooting sprees. Women's suffering is imposed externally by men, and women can negate it and even create places where they're free from male abuse, demands and expectations, women can be free in these places and inside their own heads. Women can also bond with each other without needing someone's suffering to bond over, women don't have a toxic fear of appearing "homo" if they show too much affection to each other. There's more to being a woman than just being an object of male mistreatment and having a biology that puts you at a disadvantage.
I'm not sure about korean but liziqi on youtube is a chinese creator who does the silent vlogs as well. She was massively popular and her videos are gold absolute gold. She stopped creating for a bit because she is in legal battles but would highly recommend you watch some of her old videos!
Thank you!!