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Need Advice or SupportHe passed away.
Posted June 3, 2024 by TSTat1400Ya girl Satan in Women

Hi, ladies, you may remember my post from three weeks ago asking for help regarding how to support my husband while his brother was dying. I really appreciated all the kindness and wisdom from you all, and it was very helpful. I greatly appreciated the advice for my husband to go visit ASAP, because he would get worse and unable to communicate before passing. This turned out to be true.

My husband's brother passed away last night. I am so grateful that he was able to be with his family in his last weeks. He didn't want to die, and almost to the very end he was talking about getting back to work. But his body couldn't support him any longer. It is my belief that he held on to be present for a significant anniversary date (which he was!), and then was ok with letting go after that.

I am frustrated and maybe feeling guilty that I wasn't able to be there, but I am trying to reframe it that by staying at home to take care of our pets, I enabled my husband to be there for his last weeks and right up to the end.

My husband is on his way home right now, and I will see him tonight. I'm not sure how he'll be doing, or, again, how to support him. We haven't spoken much (mostly texting) the last three weeks due to the time difference and the hospital visits.

I again want to support my husband, but I'm hurting too right now. I could again use some advice and support from you all, if you are willing to give it. Thank you, kind community.

19 comments

SadeyedladyNovember 23, 2024

Ugh another trans fanfic story that features a teen / child. These guys are jerking off to thoughts of a young girl asking them for a pad or tampon. It’s so disturbing. They are publicly broadcasting this on Reddit yet TRAs and lots of average liberals will continue to be willfully blind and make excuses for these perverts who are “just living as their authentic selves.”

FastWavesNovember 24, 2024

Shrek is looking rough as hell these days.

OneryBoxNovember 24, 2024

I'm married to a man with full custody of his children. He's literally never asked me to borrow a pad for his daughter. He would just go buy her some?

I think I've been asked if I had a pad like maybe once in my entire life? Where do they get this idea that we do this all the time, and this is such a "normal" experience for women??

MignonetteNovember 23, 2024

Your own hand does not count as a guy you've been seeing.

Researcher1536November 24, 2024

The manliest of hands

[Deleted]November 23, 2024

So funny, so true!

SaintlyTheGhostNovember 24, 2024

Of all the things that never happened, this never happened the most.

overanddoneNovember 23, 2024

"Guy I've been seeing has been whacked out on coke the whole time"

ItzpapalotlNovember 24, 2024

I don’t like to be rude about appearances...but (since this man is a fetishistic pervert) I feel I must compare his body to if somebody stuffed a duvet into a trash bag, badly.

carbon0vaNovember 23, 2024

So this didn't happen, but in the event parts of it resemble reality: fuck that guy for exposing his daughter to this

norman_bates👁November 25, 2024

If I didn't know better, I'd insist this has to be a joke.

HarpySmeagolNovember 23, 2024

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST

AmareldysNovember 23, 2024

Guy I have been seeing is confused because I tell him I have periods

Researcher1536November 24, 2024

😮‍💨😮‍💨 No.

hard_headed_womanNovember 23, 2024

Someone please explain that chest to me. I can't figure out what's going on there.. Is this wrong sex hormones gone wrong?

beingyearning 4 a cyber-vaginaNovember 23, 2024

I think it's a combination of the lighting, and the fact that he's really fat and has grown major moobs. there may or may not be exogenous hormones involved.

[Deleted]November 23, 2024

Looks like he put on one of those halters that criss-crosses above the chest and decided to stuff the whole thing.

frostcake4rd time cryinNovember 24, 2024

…WHAT THE FUCK?!?!

LapisLazuliNovember 23, 2024

Is there a kitten or a cantaloupe under there or is he just thinking of that scene in Total Recall?