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I tend to agree with this.

And I'll add - I've tried, but it always feels a little bit sexist to use a female specific word when the "you guys" I'm talking to are all women... Like, why am I singling them out for their sex?? It's kind of like saying "women" instead of "people" when sex isn't relevant to the matter at hand... women are people too, you know, there's no need to other them from half the population. I used to prefer "pregnant people" for this very reason.

But I suppose this is all because it is very much ingrained in my thinking that 'guys' is neutral when used in the second person (or when referring to objects) and male is the default human.

I guess I will just say "you people" from now on and see how that goes. :P

redfem-radpillMarch 9, 2025

LOL I'm sure you won't encounter any problems with that!!!! 🤣