I had an interesting convo in the gym today.
There was a guy who joined gym some months ago, and according to the men I workout with, they said He's not manly enough. He already is "Low T". And they had a bet that the new could would become "full blown woman" in few months, ie become a TiM.
And lo and behold, today he showed up in the gym dressed in yoga pants with red lipstick on( who the hell wears lipstick in the gym) , and a sports bra with I don't know what stuffed inside them. He wanted to grab attention, and he did.
But the guys were like haha, we told you he's a woman.
The default in patriarchy really is either someone is a Man, or a Non Man ffs.