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I know we're all pretty alike in our outlook on gender ideology. I had written in a reply in another post that I had stopped swimming at my gym due to a TIM that seems to be there all the time. I go in the morning, he's there, I go in the evening he's there. Doesn't matter what day.
I encountered him first after swimming where I have to use the locker room. I also encountered him the same week when I just needed the bathroom. So I no longer use the locker room.
Another poster replied that she had also curtailed going to the spa for the same reason. I just wondered how many of us have been affected by TIMs in supposed female only spaces. I know many of the lesbian forums are inundated with TIMs so I also put an online option in the poll.
The Cross Dressers Wife by Dee A Levy
In The Curated Woods by Ute Heggen
Found these on Trans Widows Voices website.
Thank you! I will find both of these.
TransWidows Voices also features the stories of trans widows (mine among them).
Thank you--I read the stories there a while back--may be time to read them again. And thank you for sharing your story! That can't have been easy.
Writing and sharing my story was part of my healing. I also share my store in the upcoming film on transwidows by Vaishnavi Sundar, "Behind the Looking Glass."