32 comments

VestalVirginJanuary 28, 2025

I have my doubts about him being gay. If sexually violating women doesn't get his rocks off, then why would he do it?

Carrots90Nepo LadyFebruary 9, 2025(Edited February 9, 2025)

He is Russian with purported poor English fluency

To some Russians his age, TIMs and gays are the same thing.. My Russian in laws assumed as much. They still didn’t think TIMs belonged in the women’s. Sometimes explaining that transvestites are included under the trans umbrella helps older people understand

So this dude is just a pervert and, thanks to TRA’s, another layer of women’s safety has been eroded

The west must seem like Disney land to these guys

CruddyMuddyJanuary 29, 2025

If he “identifies as a woman” then in queerspeak being gay means he is also attracted to women.

vulvapeopleJanuary 28, 2025

It's not unheard of for TIMs to lie about being gay to lower women's defenses.

OpalsJanuary 28, 2025

He might know that he can sell the footage…

VestalVirginJanuary 28, 2025(Edited January 28, 2025)

Oh, I didn't consider that angle. True. Doesn't make it better, if so.

salamanderJanuary 28, 2025

Technically a woman could do the same too to anther woman. But few people would believe it.

Somehow perversion seems to be highly correlated with the male sex.

ToNorthJanuary 28, 2025

Huge market for it, a pervert is a pervert is a pervert. They don't have to be attracted to women to exploits us or assault us. Men just hate women period.

shewolfoffrance🦕January 28, 2025

I don't know. He might not be sexually attracted to women, but that doesn't rule out being a misogynist who simply enjoys hurting and humiliating women.

HeadacheJanuary 29, 2025

I misread that as "hunting" women and it was still accurate ...

atomic_brunetteJanuary 28, 2025

He might be bi and telling a half-lie to avoid consequences

OwnLyingEyesJanuary 28, 2025

He could still get a sexual thrill off the violation part of it even if he isn't attracted to women.

Carrots90Nepo LadyFebruary 9, 2025(Edited February 9, 2025)

He is Russian and supposedly needed a translator.

I think he is one of those guys who thinks gay and trans are the same thing. He reminds me of my older Russian in laws

He is just lying.

Well, so are TIMs but in a different way

ClarbgJanuary 29, 2025

Then he’s not gay.

OwnLyingEyesJanuary 29, 2025

Gay men can be twisted fucks, too, and paraphilias can bypass orientation in odd ways. The only thing that determines if he's gay or not is if he's exclusively attracted to the same sex or not, not if he also gets off on acting out certain perverse scenarios. For some people, just breaking taboos is a sexual thrill all on its own.

kassandraJanuary 29, 2025

I try to explain this to people and the difference between pedos and predators. language and open honest discussion about the depravity of mainly males is super important. people don't wanna hear it.

OwnLyingEyesJanuary 29, 2025(Edited January 29, 2025)

It definitely complicates things and can make it harder to parse out motivations, and can be particularly distressing if you tend to conceptualize gay men as 'the good ones'/safe instead of just as men in the full scope of the word (and act like it). Kind of like learning abruptly that little old men or mentally disabled men aren't actually safe for women, either.

VestalVirginJanuary 28, 2025

If we count men who get off only on violating women, not on consensual sex, as gay, then the number of gay men in any given country would probably rise by, like, 10%. (Of the general population, not the gay man population)

It all depends on what we need the info for. If we are to allow men into women's spaces, then men who get off on violating women cannot be considered gay. (Though men should never be allowed in women's spaces, regardless)

I admit that to other gay men, a man who doesn't love women and thus won't leave his male partner to be with a woman, is probably gay enough.

OwnLyingEyesJanuary 28, 2025

Fetishes and paraphilias are different than sexual orientation, though, and men of any sexual orientation can have them. Sometimes they turn another person into a prop rather than a partner for the purpose of the fetish scenario. While Sam Brinton says he's bi and could well be, he's married to another man and he might be one example of this: he clearly got a thrill out of targeting women and stealing their clothing, then wearing them. I wouldn't call that behavior heterosexual, bisexual, OR homosexual, but something else, particularly if his focus was on the stalking, the thrill of theft in a public place, gloating over and trying on his ill-gotten gains in private, wearing them in public and feeling like he was getting away with something, rather than focusing on the women themselves. For this creep, the very act of spying at risk of getting caught might have been the payoff.

But also, I'm on team 'no men in women's spaces,' so that kind of makes the point moot on which ones to open the door to.

EavaJanuary 29, 2025

Brinton is most likely AGP. I think men can be AGP regardless of their sexual orientation.

IronicWolfJanuary 28, 2025

I’m troubled that he’s a plumber - a man who spends his days going into the homes of women on their own.

Carrots90Nepo LadyFebruary 9, 2025

Ugh. True

He could install a camera in someone’s restroom too

ClarbgJanuary 29, 2025

This is one of the most disgusting fetishes I’ve never been able to understand. Can you imagine ANY woman wanting to spy on a man in the toilet? 🤢 Has there been a single woman in the history of humanity interested in doing that?

Carrots90Nepo LadyFebruary 9, 2025

Yes, male perversions are so weird

They run the world but are ruled by their penis*

We’ve seen men lose everything in service to their dick

Ha, their personal DICKtator…..sorry

VestalVirginJanuary 29, 2025

I mean, I can sure imagine a female spy hiding on the ceiling of the male's loo while state secrets are discussed by two men at the pissoir.

Or a medieval servant maid hiding in the closet to stab the sadistic lord once he comes in to use the privy.

What I cannot imagine is a woman spying on some random man who doesn't know any state secrets and whom she doesn't plan to assassinate. If we wanted to see a random penis, we could just ask for pictures ... in fact, we don't even have to ask, we get dick pics we don't want anyway, so yeah.

TheChaliceIsMightierAdultHumanFemaleJanuary 28, 2025

Check his browser history and we'll find out quickly whether he's gay or not.

Elle_x_ohJanuary 28, 2025

'He explained he first went to the male toilet but it was busy..."

'He said he was not watching her"

What a crock of bullshit....lol

Carrots90Nepo LadyFebruary 9, 2025

Yeah. A long line at the meds room

FemmeEtalJanuary 29, 2025

“I wasn’t watching her” immediately changed to “I peeked because she was doing DrUgS!”

Puh-lease. Glad the judge wasn’t having it and didn’t let the pervert get away with it.

VestalVirginJanuary 29, 2025

Yeah, right. I mean, if I see someone handling a syringe at the park, I always walk up to them and stare at them, because someone has to supervise their drug usage! Except no. I stay the hell away from people who look like they might be doing drugs, like any sane person.

(He seriously thought the judge would believe that crap? )

Women1stJanuary 28, 2025

His Nikes have a pink swoosh- total woman.

Seriously, when will the world wake up? Men, of any flavor, do not belong in women’s spaces.

RappaccinisDaughterJanuary 28, 2025

Another man who "just wants to pee"!