One thing I find hugely disappointing and annoying is when feminists have a big attitude about how men are all garbage, we should avoid them, their opinions are null and void, and whatnot, but are ready to kiss trans ass as soon as it appears.
Men should stfu about womanhood, the female body, the female experience, and our struggles. Right? They're garbage, from right to left, all in their own way. What a fierce stance.
But when he calls himself Lilith or Alice? When he abandons his wife and children not for a petty reason but for a noble cause like an out-of-control fetish? When he reduces womanhood to being a dumb slut who can't reason her way out of a cardboard box and has no purpose other than to be fucked? When he ''discovered'' his inner womanhood by watching ''lesbian'' porn? Who's even more openly misogynistic than a lot of MAGA-dudes?
THEN he's a woman, then he has a say on womanhood. Then he has female experiences! Then we should sit down, shut up, listen, and invite him to all our erotic sleepovers. (the eyerolling is making me dizzy here)
When he goes from Steven to Alice, his maleness is transubstantiated. His shit attitudes and opinions become just another woman's voice. His misogyny and sexism become an authentic experience of womanhood. And all those feminists who rail against men and their horrid behaviour? They say aw, thanks, so great to have you here, please educate us some more.
It's so insulting and I think that women who partake in this, especially when juxtaposing this such a harsh stance about men, are humiliating themselves. They take away from their own dignity. What is all this bravoure worth when it's immediately switched off once he calls himself Evelyn Elvenheart Moonsong? All his shittiness becomes a sacred voice from the heavens.
I'm not a native speaker, so maybe I'm not clear, I don't mean to say that this 4B ''attitude'' is a bad thing; quite the opposite. Bring it on with the misandry. BUT. When you have such a big attitude about men yet it immediately goes out the window once the fetish takes over (arguably worse than a lot of ''regular dudes''), then what is it worth? It's a bit pathetic, it's a declawed form of feminism. It's posturing and bluster but once he dons a spinny skirt it becomes sunshine and rainbows.
It's insulting all women's intelligence.
I’m still so mad about the Vagina Monologues
The writer of that play thinks transwomen are women so she can go pound sand.
Ugh
I wonder if she really does?
Not that we can know
We finally got a chance to talk about ourselves and it's already gone
Talk of Vaginas made people uncomfortable because they were so dirty & gross. They should be hidden, not be talked about
….and then suddenly
Talk of Vaginas make people uncomfortable because they are so exclusionary & oppressive. They should be hidden, not be talked about
Except in porn. Then vaginas are fine, always was, always will be. Just they have to be called something degrading. And lesbians must have one. Sorry bedicked women. Men don’t have to see dicks they don’t want to see