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Today I defended nonsurgical nonbinaries to yet another “tru trans”
Oh, I had my own reasons. Dye your hair blue. Wear makeup. People who care will call you the pronouns you want.
Quit trying to pretend it’s a medical thing. If you are without e or t, no one’s coming to kill you and quit weaponsing suicide.
When I see these people asking if they can get refugee status in some non-US country, I have a tiny aneurysm.
They have no goddamn idea what real suffering is.
While intersectionality is important I feel like academic concepts need to be better gatekept since they just get turned into oppression olympics. Thinking that a west coast TIM tech worker is more oppressed and deserves more priority for refugee/asylum status than a woman in Iran is literally insane.
I've seen that question a lot and it always makes me laugh. Victim mentality much? Idiots.
Always the same people who screech about intersectionality, too. Because their struggles are on par or worse than those of women in actual war zones.
Yeah, this whole crap about "you have to put in the work" as if it were some sort of karate where you can get a black belt in Being A Woman.
No, by all means, just dye your hair blue. Skip the hormones and surgery. It's a much better plan, because I really do believe that the majority of "trans elders" would skip all that shit if they could do it over.
You're just never really there when you try to transition. Especially if you're male. There's just no hiding it, and this gets worse with time, not better. No, CRISPR is not right around the corner, and it's far away for much simpler problems than changing sex, are you fucking kidding?
It's really important to understand: you don't want to be this, you don't want to be that, you want to be HAPPY.
It's very difficult to be happy with an unhealthy body, one that you destroyed when it was so avoidable.
I think we gc have to be done with the medical snuffalagupus snarfing up all sorts of medical care so that they “pass more” and are more palatable.
First, the assertion that Robert white and Kelly Cadigan paid out of pocket for those results is highly unlikely given that their parents’ insurance covered them to age 26. All that was accomplished was that Blaire is more attractive than Yaniv, which is largely why Blaire got to take him down. Hes an ugly man with a fake vagina, and you’re a pretty man with your penis, Blaire.
I try to understand but I really don't get the point of a nonbinary identity besides attention seeking. It's so reductive - the fact that I have traditionally male hobbies and interests doesn't change the fact that I'm a woman or make me some secret special third thing.
And especially for women, calling yourself a they/them does not protect you from sexual assaults because a male sexual offender knows what a woman is.
I have special contempt for feminist liberal women who think they’re non-binary. It absolutely infuriates me if I’m honest.