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RantGaysAgainstGroomers pushing the same ideology as trans activists
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1Ewyv89VzC/
They posted a video of a mother who filmed her son in a dress. She calls him her boy, uses he pronouns etc. She argues he's not wearing "girl clothes", only clothes. She does not imply her son is trans. And yet GaysAgainstGroomers (who used to claim they were politically neutral...) is so triggered they share it with a hyperbolic reaction video and there are 200 comments screaming "those are girl clothes this is child abuse call the authorities you belong in jail dumb liberal transhausen mom"
All because a boy put on a dress. The mom is actually saner than both the conservative and trans acitivist tribe (who are just conservatives in drag, really) because she recognises that clothes don't have a gender and don't determine sex. The reason why so many kids are confused about their gender and believe they are the wrong gender is because of all this conservative bullshit that if you're a boy you have to dress/act/look a certain way. If people keep claiming that "these are girl clothes you can't like them" no wonder these boys will believe they are not real boys. But conservatives will never admit that, no. GaysAgainstGroomers is contributing to the very phenomenon that's causing the medicalisation of gay and GNC youth, which they so vocally oppose. The doctors who medically transition kids base their diagnosis on these same regressive beliefs about gender. Every single time when there's an article about a "trans kid" the parents will say "oh we should have known Kai wasn't a true boy because he liked girl clothes and girl toys as a toddler". Every single time kids are believed to be trans because of this shit that GAG also promotes.
People who think conservatives gaining power will protect kids from transgender ideology are delusional. It might restrict hormones and surgeries to adulthood but sex role stereotypes will be promoted with a renewed force, and it will cause even more kids to believe they are not feminine or masculine enough.
Noticing that the stuff trans women were saying was indistinguishable from the things mras were saying was what started my peaking. It all came from “listening to transwomen” though.
I am not a terf in any way
Oh yeah you are. Time for you to start wearing it as a badge of honour for being able call their shit for shit.
I'll start off by saying I'm NOT a bad person! I'm not! B-but...
my god. sigh.
Haha I’m so glad that stage of constantly apologising and giving disclaimers before saying anything is behind me!
I am sure her carefully worded and performed post where she kinda sorta tried to stand up for herself and other women being deleted?
Pushed her right over the edge.
This reminds me a lot of the essay I wrote right before peaking. I hope she makes it!
If I could say one thing to her it would be ''Get off your knees, stand up and own the ground you stand on''.
Its just weird bc ive never seen any trans man refer to cis men in the same way
Men in general, no (thus revealing that trans is a sexual-fetish-centered MALE supremacist movement). But lawzy, the amount of hate out there for cis gay men from TIFs—originating from the straight or bi TIFs who've been sexually rejected by gay men (because... well... um... because, like, gay men?).
Just try a search or two for cis gay men (inside quote0s for best results)—you'll find hundreds of long-form jeremiads about the many, many ways in which cis gay men just need to do better and are otherwise just all-around less than. (Loads of them are on high-profile "lgbtq+" media sites, too. Taken together, they could make a pretty good crash course in the sobering reality of what's considered professional LGBTQ+ journalism, for the newly-peaked or still-blissfully-ignorant who might still harbor scraps of the belief that the TQ+ are "marginalized".)
Just like the violent screeds against Women, this is all another window directly into the soul of genderism. The erasure of Women, co-opting of "feminism" and constant glorification of VAWG all attest to the misogyny that's one of the 2 pillars of "trans"—and all the diatribes against `cis gay men (with plenty of their own calls for gory violence) attest to the other pillar: homophobia.
And of course the combination of ALL the worst of both is reserved for Lesbians, the only group of people who are demonized by both pillars of "trans".
Oh, honey. I said this too when I started to peak and I was scared of losing all my friends.
I lost them anyway. Turns out I am fundamentally incompatible with authoritarian liars. It’s not actually a bad thing.
It enrages me that you lost your friends over this dumb shit
Thank you. <3 I posted about some of the bigger fallings-out here. There were ones that were just implied, like social media posts sucking the T dick and saying they hoped anyone who disagrees gets hit by a truck. Like “guess we won’t be catching up over coffee soon”, lol.
I was reading some comments on JKR’s Twitter today and so many of them are about how they admire the freedom with which she speaks and lives. Since shrugging off the oppressive weight of these intolerant relationships I’m feeling that, too.
I feel this.
It is a good reminder that if gender stuff had not come between us, something else would have. While a lot of us fell for it initially (or at least for the “be kind with lies” part even if the “settled science” wasn’t checking out), there’s a type that uses this kind of thing as a social cudgel to keep others in line.
Hate to say that while there are plenty of “fight me, TWAW” wokebros, some of the meanest are other women. They have this idea that they are at the top of a social ladder (maybe for the first time ever) and enjoy reducing “TERFs” to hateful, uneducated bigots. That way, they are allowed to self-define as the opposite of that, be justified in mistreating someone else, and feel like they’ve personally rescued Anne Frank or something.