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ventWhy are there so many polyamorous women on dating apps?
I haven't been on dating apps for a few years and it used to be I would com across the occasional couple or polyamorous woman. But this time I feel like it is more women who already have boyfriends/husbands looking to also date a woman or looking for threesomes. It's really frustrating to want to date a single woman, I don't want to be second to some guy or even another woman. And the women will loads of time only post pictures of themselves and not their boyfriends. At this point it feels a little homophobic to not allow women to have monogamous relationships with each other because of the volume of polyamorous women making it impossible for single monogamous women to find each other. TiMs are such a minuscule problem compared to polyamorous women. Anyone else finding this issue?
All the male-partnered women I've met that are "polyamorous" have abusive relationships. Every single one. Without fail. (And there are Onion articles mocking my region for the popularity polyamory has here, so I know wayyyy too many.)
Polyamory appears to have become worse with COVID - I think there are a lot of relationships on their last legs and men can push harder for polyamory as the woman's last-ditch effort to "make it work". This goes double in areas where the cost of living is higher and men make disproportionately more money than the women. There's a lot of economic incentive to please the man, because most single women can't afford to live in high COL areas.