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discussionFeeling too unattractive to be with a woman.
I have always suffered from low self esteem but, as I come to terms with my attraction to women, I find that this realization is worthless considering my faith in ever being with another women is non-existent.
I’ve been told about my face being pretty several times and, sometimes, I can see what others see… but my main concern is my body. I’m so tall, standing at 5’9, and slightly overweight. The overweight thing doesn’t bother me so much because I’m losing weight nowadays so it’s no issue. But I’m still thicker regardless. Not so much lithe or dainty as my features are more on the larger side.
I’d yearn for a women but I feel as though I’m too unattractive to do so. I don’t know what the post is about or what I want to achieve but feel free to comment about your stories and advice!?
Dont feel unattractive about your size tall girls are amaaaaazing. My first serious gf was 6'0 and she was really self conscious about it too and cried often about it. I loved it though it was one of the coolest things about her. Also like when youre short...youre short to everyone, hun so its not as off putting as you think. Us ants dont notice that much of a difference between 5'7 and 6+ feet. youre all just kinda up there lol
Now if you're sad because you want your partner to be taller than you i have no help there. But i promise its not a deal breaker in the slightest I'd love to be tall myself
I cannot wrap my head around tall women being insecure. They are so pretty just by being tall. I feel insecure about being so short and feel women would never want me for that reason.
Same, I’m very short and it’s always been a major insecurity of mine. Everyone is always taller than me and growing up people liked to point that out a lot, which made me feel small on the outside and inside.
I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to like that aspect of myself, it makes me feel unattractive (which is probably exacerbated by the fact that I look super young as well and sometimes don’t get taken seriously because of it).
Same! Like "okay thanks for considering me as a foot stool that's so chill of you, tell your amazonian goddess gf I said thanks!"