Rant/Discussion: Seeing a They/Them Medical Provider

Posted March 4, 2025 by HeartOnTheWall in WomensHealthLounge

I am having some health issues and unable to see my PCP. So I took the next available appointment with "Dr. Smith". It turns out that Dr. Smith is a They/Them.

Would you feel comfortable seeing They/Them health provider? No pelvic examinations are required
Would it matter to you if they/them provider was male vs female?
How can I get over my bias that these people are not critical thinkers and accept their medical judgement/recommendations?

It is hard for me to take these people seriously in any context, but especially one where they are making important decisions that impact my life and health. I know that many of them are intellectually smart, they are just brainwashed / captured and may have helpful medical advice. Rescheduling is not an option.

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faerieberry

March 4, 2025

If it’s a one-off appointment and you don’t have to see this person again, I’d be okay with it (and more okay with this person being female rather than male, because I’d personally rather if all my doctors were female, although for a one-off I could deal with a male)

But like other comments said, for ongoing care, I wouldn’t keep seeing this person if at all possible. I just don’t know if I could trust them to make good medical decisions etc, knowing there’s people like Dr Upton saying “i’m a biological female” or whatever, I can’t trust that this person wouldn’t be just as compromised, so to speak.

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Posted March 4, 2025 by HeartOnTheWall

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