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RantSex work is work is dystopian
Posted November 27, 2023 by girl_undone in WomensLiberation

Why should the definition of “work” include sexual exploitation and abuse? Just because men are willing to pay for it?

Especially when the government is in the business of taxing work, regulating work, and regulating not working.

Work should improve society in some way.

It should also be as safe, non-traumatic, and humane as possible. If it can’t be safe or non-traumatic, the harms must be mitigated as much as possible, the pay and benefits should be substantial, and it should only be done if the benefit for society is worth the sacrifice. People who sacrifice themselves in their work often are commended by society - firefighters, soldiers, etc.

Prostitution is obviously not like those things, and prostituted women aren’t commemorated for their sacrifice, nor should women be told that it’s valiant to sacrifice themselves in prostitution, nor should society settle for sacrificing women for men’s dicks. Societies should never encourage women to be sacrificed for men’s libidos.

Men satisfying their libidos is not part of the necessary work of societal functioning.

Creating ways for men to satisfy their libidos even if they can’t get women interested in having sex with them is not a burden societies should accept.

We don’t want to consider men’s libidos as a burden they put on society. But if we think prostitution is work, that’s the logical conclusion. Men’s libidos create work because satisfying men is part of society’s labor burden.

The idea that the burden of men’s desire to orgasm should be on society to satisfy is dysfunctional and inhumane.

Men raping women should never be included in the GDP. It’s not part of the economy. Getting away with sexual assault via bribery is not producing prosperity. It’s not improving society.

Men who use prostituted women are degraded in value to their wives, girlfriends, and future partners. Women do not want men with a history of exploitatively fucking women who didn’t want or enjoy it. They don’t make good, respectful, compassionate partners. They don’t make good fathers.

Society should not be condoning a “business” that ruins men’s prospects of having good relationships.

Reducing sex to something that can be commercialized degrades what sex is. It makes it harder for men to have respectful and mutually enjoyable sex with women. It undermines all education about consent. It undermines all progress and messaging about women’s equality. It legalizes and normalizes sexual harassment and exploitation in all workplace settings and in public. Asking someone to do a legal job cannot be harassment. “Suck my dick” is the beginning of a business negotiation. It even burdens women and girls who aren’t in prostitution.

It creates additional burdens to “resolve the burden” of some men’s desire to fuck women who don’t want to fuck them.

That’s not a social good. That’s not just.

It’s dystopian for a society to be in the business of sacrificing so much from women to satisfy the libidos of men who want to fuck women who don’t want them.

14 comments

hypatiaMarch 31, 2021(Edited March 31, 2021)

My favorite small detail about the Labyrinth is how clouds of glitter sometimes announce Jareth's arrival XD

[Deleted]March 31, 2021

Mine is all the real chickens, they really were the stars.

GenderHereticMarch 31, 2021

Did you ever watch Return to Oz?

[Deleted]March 31, 2021

I have not! Is there a good chicken presence?

GenderHereticMarch 31, 2021(Edited March 31, 2021)

In that film (and the book it's based on of course), instead of Toto, Dorothy has a chicken companion named Billina. Billina is from Dorothy's farm and gains the power of speech in Oz, and is played using a very realistic puppet... and a live chicken, depending on the shot. The film is kind of dark and twisted, in that '80s way that was popular at the time, but it's so worth it just for Billina alone. She carries the film. She gets a happy ending, too, opting to stay in Oz rather than "go back to that dust bowl".

[Deleted]March 31, 2021

It sounds amazing! I will totally be watching this and join the Billina fan club.

InvisibleWomanMarch 31, 2021

Me post lockdown. I've part forgotten how to dress myself and part stopped giving the last bit of a shit about what people think are well matched outfits.

[Deleted]March 31, 2021

I’m just glad to be back where there’s actual changes of season so I’m not stuck in dreary tee shirts all the time, and where there are places to go (okay mostly hospital appointments so far, but still) so it’s worth putting on something nice!

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[Deleted]March 31, 2021

Yes! More due to climate and there being anywhere to go for me (the town I lived near before was tiny, now I’m in a regional city) than lockdown. Restrictions here have been lifted, masks are only for hospitals and public transport now. I can’t imagine what it was like during the worst of it, or for people in much harder-hit countries. I know the second lockdown in Melbourne was hard on my friends there.

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[Deleted]April 1, 2021

I suspect that’s the case pretty well everywhere. We’re very fortunate to be an island continent.

HessaHeinMarch 31, 2021

Kinda wish I could dress more weird more often...

SamuraiGhostCatMarch 31, 2021

🤣🤣🤣