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DiscussionMale identified women and woman identified women
Sometimes I lurk on LSA forum, they talk a lot about male identified women another term for pick me "handmaiden" type of women. So I'm a febfem, and I admit I used to have a cariacature in my head of how women are, thinking most straight women are male identified to the point of siding with the patriarchy, but going to reddit and this site, and seeing the based women criticizing the patriarchy and men without shame, it's like okay, I can really relate to these women. Like as a febfem woman, knowing you are in the minority of women being same sex attracted, you think you are very different from other girls and women. I always admire women who can see through men's BS, and call men out. I love solidarity between women, I want comraderie with other women, and I do believe in sisterhood. I'm very much a girls girl, woman identified woman. And I don't mean to say this, to make it seem like I'm not like the other girls, I just really want to see women win in life, be themselves, and completely free themselves of the weight of patriarchy. Thanks for reading.
This is such an excellent article.
I used to think, "fine, sure i'll use your preferred pronouns, just stay out of women's spaces etc.". But actually the longer this goes on the more i see that linguistic concessions make it increasingly difficult to argue for women's rights and to explain to the populace what is happening. It also makes it impossible for anyone who cares about the representation of women to perceive - still less change - the unfairness we still see against women.
Playing fast and loose with language in this way, making it bend to match political objectives and social niceties, ends up distorting our perception of reality. If ‘she’ takes first place in a women’s event, nothing remarkable has occurred. Our capacity to push back and challenge the reality before our eyes – a man beating women – is then seriously thwarted.
It is for this reason that transgender activists are so obsessed with pronouns.
Edit for punctuation.
I don't think TRAs are that smart to use language as such a weapon. I think they stumbled into it just by happenstance when they got all screechy about being called "he."
language is a form of programing, every journalist worth his salt knows you can change someones opinions without them noticing, just by using the right words to steer the reader to what you want.
This is a really great article - like many, I used preferred pronouns (I even had mine in my work email signature) thinking it was the nice and kind thing to do. Needless to say, as I've peaked, I've become far less interested in that and more committed to using accurate pronouns in support of women and girls.
And on the same note, I am sick to death of the "biological" nonsense.
At first I considered it clumsy, wordy, redundant, superfluous, and just plain silly.
Now I consider it as bad as "cis."
Yeah, yeah, I know the motive is different: "Cis" is in their word; "biological" is ours. "Cis" is in your face; "biological" is subtle. No, wait, not just subtle, but rather, insidious.
The effect is the same.