I've seen several posts in different self-help style subs recently about men who have used prostitutes and then feel bad about it. The comments are exclusively 'you did nothing wrong, king! it's just prudish society making you feel bad' or 'actually you're the oppressed one in this situation because she took advantage of you'. In one post I saw today, the comments suggested therapy for the OP to cope with his feelings of shame. Therapy? For a John? What about therapy for the women whose occupation is rape? He doesn't need therapy, he needs to be in prison. I couldn't believe there wasn't a single critical comment, just comment after comment of support and validation. This is why I'm a separatist for fucks sake.