No matter how nice a man seems at face value I immediately have a degree of suspicion if his position gives him access to a vulnerable group of people in some way.

Elder care is truly shit. I was lucky that my grandparents had the means to avoid these places. But my parents are getting older, they don't have any savings, and I am dreading what will happen if they one day need care that my siblings and I cannot provide

[–] hmimperialtortie cats plz 6 points

I don’t think I can read this. I already know it exists. I also have to get my mother into respite care before I have a breakdown.