Exactly this. Also due to the nature of our bodies unlike men in order to have intercourse we'd have to literally be sharing acess to ourselves in a potentially vulnerable position , in this instance with a person we find repulsive. Which most of us would not like to ever do with an individual we genuinely dislike. I think it goes back to men viewing intercourse as something done to someone else versus something shared with someone else. I've personally seen an alarming amount of comments online by men who mention how they would enjoy hate-expletive a woman they dislike or can't stand as a person. They tell this to anyone who will listen online and in some cases in real life then wonder why we choose the bear🧸.
I don’t understand how a man literally getting his precious dick swallowed up and out of sight by a cavern of pure muscle is not vulnerable. This is more male narrative.
The difference is that it doesn't hurt them to inflict sex on an unwilling participant. If it was as painful for men to rape as it was for us to be raped, they probably wouldn't rape as much.
I've never heard males describe having intercourse with a woman as being vulnerable, so I never thought of it that way. The only things I have heard that allegedly makes males feel vulnerable is when their romantic partner has pertinent information about them that could be used against them. That and rejection, but in all honesty I don't often look into the ways men feel vulnerable in relationships and sex. I more so look into red flags, the crimes they perpetuate against us, and other woman's testimonials and stories so I can hopefully learn how to handle situations with predatory men. Also I wasn't attempting to state that men having intercourse with a partner isn't infact vulnerable even if they don't see it that way. If it came off that way I apologize. My thought was that based on how males perpetrate sexually based offenses at a dispaportionate rate in juxtaposition to woman they must not see intercourse as a vulnerable act shared. I will completely admit that this view of mine is more so supposition than fact.
What is a TERF? "TERF" supposedly stands for "trans exclusionary radical feminist" but the term is used as a slur against anyone who disagrees with a proponent of transgender ideology.
We're documenting the hateful rhetoric directed at lesbians, radical feminists, gender critical feminists, and others on the internet and beyond.
All posts must exhibit "TERF" being used as a slur or harassment or violence against so-called "TERFs."
Please upload images or archived links. It may be appropriate to link to original sources in the comments, but this circle is an archive and we don't want examples disappearing when pages on other sites are removed.
/o/ItsAFetish: documenting examples of fetishism (primarily autogynephilia) within the trans community and discussing implications from a feminist perspective
/o/TransLogic: a radical feminist circle documenting the various illogical, incorrect, misogynistic, racist, and otherwise caustic rhetoric spouted from TRAs themselves
/o/Cancelled: cataloguing the attempts (generally by those in some position of power) to silence those who speak out against the queercult
"The trans-invented term of TERF invites violence against radical feminists and other women who won’t get with the transgender program. Their branding of women as TERFs is a form of trans hate speech that attempts to shame radical women and provoke compliance with trans activists’ demands." –Janice G Raymond, Doublethink
Exactly this. Also due to the nature of our bodies unlike men in order to have intercourse we'd have to literally be sharing acess to ourselves in a potentially vulnerable position , in this instance with a person we find repulsive. Which most of us would not like to ever do with an individual we genuinely dislike. I think it goes back to men viewing intercourse as something done to someone else versus something shared with someone else. I've personally seen an alarming amount of comments online by men who mention how they would enjoy hate-expletive a woman they dislike or can't stand as a person. They tell this to anyone who will listen online and in some cases in real life then wonder why we choose the bear🧸.
I don’t understand how a man literally getting his precious dick swallowed up and out of sight by a cavern of pure muscle is not vulnerable. This is more male narrative.
The difference is that it doesn't hurt them to inflict sex on an unwilling participant. If it was as painful for men to rape as it was for us to be raped, they probably wouldn't rape as much.
I've never heard males describe having intercourse with a woman as being vulnerable, so I never thought of it that way. The only things I have heard that allegedly makes males feel vulnerable is when their romantic partner has pertinent information about them that could be used against them. That and rejection, but in all honesty I don't often look into the ways men feel vulnerable in relationships and sex. I more so look into red flags, the crimes they perpetuate against us, and other woman's testimonials and stories so I can hopefully learn how to handle situations with predatory men. Also I wasn't attempting to state that men having intercourse with a partner isn't infact vulnerable even if they don't see it that way. If it came off that way I apologize. My thought was that based on how males perpetrate sexually based offenses at a dispaportionate rate in juxtaposition to woman they must not see intercourse as a vulnerable act shared. I will completely admit that this view of mine is more so supposition than fact.