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proudcatladyMay 24, 2024

I don’t understand how a man literally getting his precious dick swallowed up and out of sight by a cavern of pure muscle is not vulnerable. This is more male narrative.

I've never heard males describe having intercourse with a woman as being vulnerable, so I never thought of it that way. The only things I have heard that allegedly makes males feel vulnerable is when their romantic partner has pertinent information about them that could be used against them. That and rejection, but in all honesty I don't often look into the ways men feel vulnerable in relationships and sex. I more so look into red flags, the crimes they perpetuate against us, and other woman's testimonials and stories so I can hopefully learn how to handle situations with predatory men. Also I wasn't attempting to state that men having intercourse with a partner isn't infact vulnerable even if they don't see it that way. If it came off that way I apologize. My thought was that based on how males perpetrate sexually based offenses at a dispaportionate rate in juxtaposition to woman they must not see intercourse as a vulnerable act shared. I will completely admit that this view of mine is more so supposition than fact.