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faerieberryMarch 19, 2025

I don’t even understand how it’s supposed to be demeaning? Tons of people are “banned” from joining the military, because they (rightfully so) have requirements - I used to get tons of calls from recruiters, trying to get me to join, which I would never anyway LMAO but when I told him once “I’m diagnosed autistic, and legally blind without glasses,” he said “oh I’m so sorry to bother you,” and never called again 😂

And it’s not an insult or “demeaning” or whatever else, it’s just a fact - I’m unfit for military service, oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not everyone gets to do everything they want.

PinkPeoniesInTheRainMarch 20, 2025

Tons of people are “banned” from joining the military, because they (rightfully so) have requirements ...

I tried to sign up for National Guard back in my 20's. The recruiter took one at me (I was, at the time, about 50 pounds overweight), pulled out his thick manual of rules and regs, and very pointedly read me the section on acceptable height-to-weight ratios. I wouldn't have made a good soldier anyway, but to be proactively rejected was depressing.

faerieberryMarch 20, 2025

Okay now that does sound demeaning and I’m sorry you experienced that, he didn’t have to be rude about it