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Posted November 29, 2021 by girl_undone in Ovarit

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RadisheSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but it's a lot safer than dating men.

ReliquiaSeptember 10, 2024

I didn't know this expression as a non native speaker and this was the only comment I understood before looking it up lmao

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 9, 2024

đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł fucking gold star you win

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024

You win!! Oh 😆😆 I laughed so hard that I snorted

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

Lmaoooooooo

[Deleted]September 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I am dating myself here...but I can no longer get a job teaching women's studies because I am a woman...and bc I am gender critical 😱

Here is a job description for a new position in WOMEN, gender studies:

The Department of Sociology and Interdisciplinary Social Sciences and Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies Program at San José State University is pleased to announce a search for an Assistant Professor of Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies beginning in August 2025. We seek someone with an area of specialization in Trans Studies with an emphasis on intersectional analyses. Possible secondary areas of specialization within this focus include queer of color critique, Trans futures, carceral studies, ongoing institutions and practices of Trans activism, disability studies, or fat studies. Potential courses taught includeIntroduction to Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies, Introduction to Transgender Studies, and Queering Gender, Race, and Class.

Here is another.

What is wrong with this picture?

Edit 1: Fat studies? do we have "thin studies"? and, on that note: Edit 2: So we can have people who study trans but it has to only EVER be PRO-Trans! Not, say, those who study ROGD or trans&capitalism or god forbid, gender critical approaches to trans. Same with porn studies. It should be called PRO-PORN studies or Porn propaganda. There can only ever be ONE position/viewpoint and all the rest are not academically valid or even acknowledged. I have a billion ways to study trans--none of them them even legible (or legitimate) w/in an academia, even though I can throw all the trendy terms and deep philosophical concepts into my position.

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

If I never encounter the word “queering” again I will die a happy feminist

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I was happy to 'queer' anything they liked as long as I got to teach young women the foundations and classic texts of feminism. Alas, no more.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I guess none of us are going to die happy feminists.

formallyknownaswomanSeptember 9, 2024

Not much about women being taught in that so-called women's studies section.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

Trojan horse destruction of women's studies, not to mention english departments, hell the humanities in general. Too lazy to capitalize anything, no offense.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

any discipline that had a feminist contingent has been smashed to smithereens.

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

OMG! I am dating myself, but I am glad I'm a long ways from college age.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I am dating myself here, but I survived my entire life without a smartphone. I fondly remember rotary phones. Remember that one in the kitchen attached to a wall with the coiled cord from the phone to the mouthpiece/receiver and I'd stretch it as far as I could to get some privacy. I do not own a smartphone to this day bc I think they are inane and evil (for a lot more reasons than coltan, but that is a good place to start).

I am dating myself here, but I really miss jogging with my sony walkman. I had the best mixtapes! Mostly songs I taped from KROQ. I miss underground and alternative radio stations long before clear channel. Bluetooth headphones make my ears feel weird bc of the bulk. To this day I use wired headphones.

...I miss being able to afford to go to the movies. Like movies were under $7.50. I miss quieter films, both conceptually (Silkwood, Norma Rae, Sophie's Choice as opposed to the MCU and Transformers--note a theme here? men/ action wrecked Hollywood. lol) and actual volume. One of the best jokes on The Good Place is the axe body spray called "Transformers" which smells both loud and confusing. (Michael Bay is satan.)

...I remember bookstores and record stores. Spending hours upon hours just thumbing through their catalogue. I discovered so many great bands that way, so many no one has heard of to this day.

OMG! VIDEO STORES! Remember going out to rent a video? That was the best. My husband and I would walk through Philly to the frozen custard place and then spend half the night looking at film titles at TLA. By the time we finally decided on something, we'd get home too late to watch it! Phuc streaming. I prefer expansive video stores any day of the week. Oh, and I remember when Netflix just meant having a DVD delivered to your door in that little red envelope.

This may date me, but I miss step classes. And stretch classes at the gym. Now it MUST be yoga. God forbid someone just teaches stretching w/o all the blah blah spiritual (appropriative) crap.

I miss not having or NEEDING the internet. My life was infinitely happier w/o it. Even at the beginning it was fine, when the only uses I had for it started with E: email, ebay. That's it.

...Life was infinitely better 15-20 years ago. I have the life experience to prove it. lol

samsdatSeptember 10, 2024

I miss not having or NEEDING the internet. My life was infinitely happier w/o it. Even at the beginning it was fine, when the only uses I had for it started with E: email, ebay. That's it.

...Life was infinitely better 15-20 years ago. I have the life experience to prove it. lol

I couldn’t agree more. I recognize that this makes me sound like a Luddite, but life was better without it. I was thrilled to be able to look up anything I needed to know when smartphones came out, but the tradeoff for having so much information at our fingertips is that the pace of life became ridiculously fast and community - and personal relationships - have been destroyed at levels I don’t think we even recognize yet.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

Proud feminist luddite here! Now, if we could start a movement...

DoomedSibylSeptember 9, 2024

@tuff_terfues. I wouldn’t be at all surprised if we knew each other by sight in Philly back in the eighties and nineties.

I remember only three to five television channels.

I remember pantyhose, not fondly you understand but I remember them.

I remember when air conditioning was considered a luxury.

I remember waiting in huge lines at the bank.

I remember when tomatoes bought in the grocery store actually tasted like something.

I remember answering machines. And writing term papers on typewriters.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 11, 2024

And when we had so few channels, we all had a shared culture of tv viewing. I still miss that, although I do enjoy the variety we have now.

You could walk into any workplace in America, and start up a conversation on what was on tv the night before even if you didn't watch that particular program. I mean..."Who shot JR?" LOL

DoomedSibylSeptember 12, 2024

I remember the shared culture too. This was a bigger loss than we yet realize I think. Though I too enjoy the variety and the little television golden age we had around the turn of the century.

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

Remember LeGGs pantyhose that would come in plastic eggs?

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

And that terrible bamboo image that was supposed to mean they were silky. Not everything was better in the past.

PhryneSeptember 10, 2024

Yes!

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I was in Philly after 2000. I grew up in LA (thus, KROQ, punk rock, bad ass fearlessness, etc.). I too remember all these. Much better TV shows in those days, if you ask me. Bank lines! wow that's a throwback! I had Laurie Anderson as my outgoing message. If you can name the song, you win all the feminist points for the day. lol

MKatieSeptember 9, 2024

I'm one of the first iphone-as-kid gens and I absolutely loathe it. Growing up I loved it, but now I grow to hate it more with every day that passes. I'm addicted whether I like it or not, and everything I have done and do (school, socializing, work) depends on having my phone on me 24/7 and being reachable at all times.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 9, 2024

Same. It's hard to learn to disconnect.

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024

Now it MUST be yoga.

I might be dating myself here, and being entirely too Canadian, but this reminds me of an episode of Corner Gas in which one character wants to start a Pilates class, and after everyone initially shuns her for promoting an exercise class based on the guy who killed Jesus, they finally ask her what it's about. When she describes it, they're like: "Oh, mat class. Wanda already teaches mat class."

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

This is hysterical! My friend in German Studies wants to write a book on Josef Pilates bc he was supposedly a big weirdo nazi or something. So not far off the Canadian joke! lol

EmmaGildedSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I’m dating myself here but I used to love the little white circle stickers I would put around the holes punched in the sheets of paper that went into my 3-ring binder so the rings wouldn’t tear through the edge.

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

Omgggg they were great! I once had a multi coloured pack and had great fun colour-coordinating my notes via the rings lmao.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I remember this so well too. That plus mimeograph machines for worksheets in grade school, in the front office. A big round silver drum.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 11, 2024

Sniffing the worksheets that just came out of that mimeograph machine!

[Deleted]September 11, 2024

Oh yeah, I forgot about that!

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

I was such a stationary-head. Still am 😂

hellamomzillaSeptember 9, 2024

I’m dating myself here, but I still have a VHS tape that we recorded an episode of MST3K and the commercials are gold

TOWER RECORDS RIP

samsdatSeptember 9, 2024

TOWER RECORDS RIP

I miss those listening stations


[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I miss lining up at midnight for the coolest record releases.

samsdatSeptember 9, 2024

I was never that cool, lol

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

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hellamomzillaSeptember 10, 2024

❀ đŸ€–

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hellamomzillaSeptember 10, 2024

We moved and I am not sure where it’s ended up in our house!

HanlonsrazorSeptember 10, 2024

I’m dating myself here but I remember when it was acceptable to have friends with opposing political beliefs.

MagPiSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here but I used to have to yell at my mom when she picked up the phone and inadvertently cut the internet connection.

FastWavesSeptember 9, 2024

The modem is like wrrrrbzzzaaaaaazzzchpaaanurgurga

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

Eeuuuuoowwweeerrrggzzzk

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

đŸ„č good times

FastWavesSeptember 9, 2024

We all have detention tomorrow for downloading 40 seconds of a Sublime song and searching 'Lisa Loeb tits.'

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

Aawweerrrrgghweeeerrrhgeeerrrrgh

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024

Oh man, I so love the sound of a modem dialing.

BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I met Lyndon Johnson when he was Vice-President in July 1963. People were so jammed in that my dad had to pick me up and carry me in his arms. I got to meet these tall men at eye level. Johnson gave me a pass to the Senate Gallery, which was cool. Governor John Connally was there too, and there was no Secret Service or security of any kind that we could see. This was at a hotel ballroom.

WatcherattheGatesSeptember 9, 2024

I remember computer TAPES. I remember computer PUNCH CARDS. Heck, I even remember SLIDE RULES.

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

I still have my slide rule! I don't remember how to use it, but I have the book (yes, an actual book)! And I also used punch cards.

WatcherattheGatesSeptember 11, 2024

Sistah!

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 9, 2024

So my grandparents met working with mainframe computers for the military and there were literally at least 4 IBM branded slide rules in their things. I wanted them to be useful so badly. Also their coworkers made them a card that said congratulations on your new bundle of joy out of punch cards that took up 6 or more cards because of the limited amount of information they held. A cute joke I could never have understood without the physical evidence

WatcherattheGatesSeptember 9, 2024

That's so cool . . .

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

Did you ever use punch cards or do you just remember them? Same question about the slide rule. I had to Google what a computer tape was

WatcherattheGatesSeptember 10, 2024

Use them! You types on a keyboard, and the cards would be punched. Then you fed them into a machine and zip, zip, zip they were fed into the machine and read. God forbid you dropped your tray of ordered punchcards . . . that was the end for you and you were back to square one!

ByzantineOtterSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

The sound of a ZX Spectrum loading is so nostalgic for me.

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I know how to drive a stick shift. And the phone was, not just a rotary phone, but on a party line. Records were 33s, 45s, or 78s. And so much more....

hard_headed_womanSeptember 11, 2024

Yes, my first car was a stick shift!

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 11, 2024

I still drive a stick. I bought my last car on purpose for it. I doubt I’ll be able to find another one, but I want a hybrid or EV next time. If it’s going to drive like a brick at least it can be quiet.

devushkaSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here but I can remember using a card catalogue at a library.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

Not to brag, but I worked at the library and I got to pull out the spike thing that held the cards when adding new ones or weeding old ones.

shewolfoffranceSeptember 10, 2024

Some of those card catalogues were really well-crafted! It makes me sad to think of all the ones that must have been discarded.

devushkaSeptember 10, 2024

I know they're so pretty!

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024

Omg I remember having to learn the Dewey decimal system with the cards

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024

I’m dating myself here, but I have fond memories of using floppy discs to save our classroom assignments. We could personalize our assignments by picking which color floppy disc we wanted. We were told floppy discs were the future!

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I used to carry the updates for my website to the university on a floppy disc because I hadn't yet convinced my room mate that we needed internet.

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

Oh the simpler times when not everyone had internet!

EDITED TO ADD: also the fact that at one point there was only one computer, you couldn’t make phone calls while it was on, and the dial up modem tone as it came online

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

I used floppy discs a lot! Gotta check the little slidey-do to make sure it's in save mode lol.

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 10, 2024

I just love how personalized everything about the internet and computers were back in the day. Like yeah we have USBs and some sticks are different colors, but it doesn’t have the same feeling as picking up a floppy disc in some bright color or changing the Lock Screen on the computer monitor with something you drew in MS Paint

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 11, 2024

Floppy disks came in so many great colours. USBs don't seem to have that variety.

I've personalised my lock screen. Maybe you can still do that with an MS paint picture?

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 11, 2024

I’ve since used precious photos for my lock screen, but as a little girl, I was all about MS paint 😆

IrishTheFrenchieSeptember 9, 2024

I’m dating myself here but


I had a Trapper Keeper in middle school and a massive crush on Michael J Fox.

OxyToxinSeptember 10, 2024

I know you're not me, but... are you me? lol

IrishTheFrenchieSeptember 10, 2024

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[Deleted]September 10, 2024

Trapper Keeper, too, but Lance Kerwin all the way (or Shaun Cassidy before him from the Hardy Boys)

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

My Trapper Keeper was a mess. How were those things even supposed to work?

My crushes were Eddie Van Halen and Rob Lowe.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 11, 2024

Yes, Rob Lowe. I swear that man made a deal with the devil. He's aged very little!

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember when all the cool websites had to have Flash (looking at you, Homestarrunner ☆).

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 10, 2024

Omg I loved homestarrunner lol

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024

RIP Cool Math Games, you will always be loved

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

lol strong bad! Trogdor! And Teen Girl Squad!

carbon0vaSeptember 9, 2024

Cleaning up the malware those flash sites dumped (at least once a month) is how I originally learned Windows internals. I guess I should thank my younger siblings/cousins for my career.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here but I remember having to tear the edges off the printer paper and tear the pages apart before turning in my assignment.

BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

I had a very noisy daisy wheel printer that I ran with tractor feed paper, original & 2 copies. Sprockets that had to be torn off the sides and then the original & 2 carbons separated. Sometimes the daisy wheel would go nuts, disintegrate and start spitting plastic type bars. In the 1980s. I remember when I got a B&W LaserJet printer and how much of a big deal that was.

IrishTheFrenchieSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myelf here, but I remember having to write all my papers by hand.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

We had typewriters for a VERY long time--unless you are talking k-12. I typed mine in college, wrote in cursive before that. I had to have that white out tape all the time to fix my typos. I still have those papers. This is will date me but: this (typeset) is why there used to be TWO spaces between sentences. I read a website that this definitely dates you...putting 2 spaces between sentences. Also, having a yahoo or aol email def dates you (I had yahoo email FOREVER).

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

I still type two spaces after every period on a keyboard. I can’t stop!

PhryneSeptember 10, 2024

I was taught 1 space after a comma, 2 spaces after a colon or semicolon, and 3 spaces after a full stop. And how to use carbon paper to make copies.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 9, 2024

Hey, I still remember the punch cards and paper tape!

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

What about making a big print-shop for your best friends locker on her birthday? 😂

TortoisemouseSeptember 9, 2024

Oooh wow. That's impressive.

carbon0vaSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here but my friends and I were convinced we had hit peak future because we had three-way dialing on our landline phones (or as we called them back then, 'phones').

IrishTheFrenchieSeptember 10, 2024

We never had 3 way calling, or a push button phone. 😭

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024

Having a second handset once the wireless landlines came around was just as good and didn't cost extra every month 😂

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 10, 2024

Omg we had two of those and one that was a cord on the wall growing up. The phone would ring and we’d be passing the wireless one around the house through all my siblings, or in a “go ask your mother” loop with passing info along

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember recording music from the radio onto cassette tapes.

I also remember when mobile phones became widespread. There were kids in first grade who got a phone before I did. I was one of the last in my age group to get my own, and I noticed how phones enabled my friends' bad social behaviour. We'd make plans and I would be in the meeting place on time and be waiting for ten minutes or so. When they finally arrived late, they'd say, "Sorry, you don't have a phone, so I couldn't tell you I was running late!" Even worse would be the times one person would show up and say, "We changed plans, we're doing this thing and meeting there instead. You don't have a phone, so I came to get you." As a teenager I rolled with it and got my own phone as soon as I left home, but as an adult, I really want to smack those kids across the head and say, "Stick to the plans and respect everyone's time!"

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

A personally made mixed tape was the pinnacle of friendship

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 11, 2024

100%. A precious gift.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

I had a hard, hard time throwing away this one mixtape a guy made for me, at least a decade after I didn’t have any way to play it.

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

YOUNG LOVE 😭😭😭😭😭

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

Not so much love as it was a really good tape!

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 10, 2024

For me growing up, it was burning CDs with music from either iTunes or the internet, and then playing it as a mixtape playlist in the car or in a portable cd player!

shewolfoffranceSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember when margarine and artificial sweeteners were "health" foods.

BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

I remember when the only artificial sweetener around was liquid saccharin and it was quite bitter. It didn't taste at all like sugar. It was gross. I am a super taster (twice as many tastebuds as normal people) and a picky eater.

My grandmother and mother would gaslight me and tell me "Oh it tastes just like sugar!! If you eat too much sugar you are gonna get sugar diabetes!!!". Nothing like being told at a young age that your perceptions are WRONG to mess with your head.

shewolfoffranceSeptember 10, 2024

My Mom swore up and down that I couldn't actually taste the difference diet and regular soda. I know kids have more sensitive taste buds, but to this day, I still think aspartame tastes cloying and bitter.

BeachBleachSeptember 11, 2024

Super tasters don't like sour, spicy or bitter tastes. This is why I have never liked alcohol.

When I was grown, I finally had fresh broccoli and it was good. My grandmother's cooking repertoire was that restricted. She thought boiled greens had vitamins.

In my twenties, I had Chinese food and liked it. In my thirties, I had Japanese food and liked it, because the flavors were subtle. But my dad refused to ever go to a Chinese restaurant so I never had it until I was in college.

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024

My grandma told me margarine came with the coloring packet separate from the product in the 30s and her favorite thing in the world as a child was squishing the packets together to mix themđŸ„ș it's painfully wholesome

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

No one had to tell me this, I remember it.... And no, I am not your grandma.... But old enough I guess!

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 11, 2024

HELL YES DIRECT KNOWLEDGE!! This is exactly what I was hoping to hear!!! Thank you for speaking up! Do you remember when it started coming pre-mixed? And was it like "new and improved margarine but better and easier" in advertising?

And you're a fine wine! A fruit bearing tree of knowledge lol

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

It kind of varied by state. I grew up in the upper midwest, with relatives in different states. Late 1950s in most, but in Wisconsin it was in the 1960s. Wine you say? Dry reds!

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 11, 2024

Side note, love your username!!

RNPhalaropeSeptember 11, 2024

And I like yours as well... And I have seen Red-legged Honeycreepers.I would love to see a Golden-collared Honeycreeper, they look amazing!

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 11, 2024

Oh my goodness!!! How I’d love the chance to see any honeycreeper. You are quite lucky!

My username is in reference to the Green Honeycreeper, my favorite. In particular my reasoning is that it is one of the few bird species who’s name is based on the female and not the male. Similar to your bird! (In the sense that the female was what the name was based on)

RNPhalaropeSeptember 12, 2024

Yes on the Green Honeycreeper, and a few other bird names. With all the hand wringing over "culturally inappropriate" bird names (birds named for dead white men) and how we will attract more birders if those names are changed, I call BS! Will we get more female birders if we change the names of those birds named for the male if the species? The lust is huge, just for the US. I may start a thread on that.

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 12, 2024

Yeah I’ve had mixed feelings about that myself tbh. I don’t think it really is beneficial to change all of those names, especially since there are records upon records of research with the “old” names. Banding stations would have to annotate all of their previous data. They’d also have to learn an entirely new, already complex, bird banding annotation system. I think it would just be more confusion for what it’s worth.

shewolfoffranceSeptember 10, 2024

Oh, gosh. I remember one of my older female relatives saying that too!

I'm still sticking with butter and olive oil, though.

ByzantineOtterSeptember 10, 2024

Reminds me of when crisps used to have that little blue packet of salt

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

This reminds me of arguably the WORST ONE:

I'm dating myself, but I grew up before anyone said WORD ONE about SUNSCREEN! We put tanning oil on instead--Coppertone--to bake and invite skin cancer. I am SOO angry I grew up w/o sunscreen.

Can you believe no one ever talked about sunscreen but rather we all just hung out at the beach or by the pool condemning ourselves to a future of skin cancer?

PhryneSeptember 10, 2024

Sunscreen, you say? We used cooking oil and were glad of it!

shewolfoffranceSeptember 10, 2024

Things have gone full circle now! There are alternative health nuts who insist that baking in the sun prevents cancer, and using sunscreen causes it. Their evidence is that skin cancer diagnoses started going up roughly around the time that sun screen became more common.

My personal theory on that is that fashion and lifestyle changed such that people started exposing more skin to strong, direct sunlight. Tan skin became fashionable, clothing got skimpier, and more people had the leisure time to spend baking in the sun by the pool while wearing very little.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 9, 2024

Listening to 8 track tapes in the car while making out with my boyfriend. :)

Talking all hours of the night on the rotary landline while my parents yelled at me to "get off the phone!"

Owning an Apple II computer before most people had ever heard of Apple.

Having my gas pumped and my car windows cleaned by the gas station attendant. (I miss this one!)

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

Hours on the phone with my friend in high school.

Yes, the gas station attendant. Bring them back I say!

TortoisemouseSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember when selfies meant going into the photobooth on the high street with your best friend and getting 4 photos taken in quick succession (no re-takes!), and then waiting anxiously outside for the little strip of developed paper to appear in the slot.

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

Much better than current selfies. I remember when selfies first started littering the internet. I wondered why people thought other people would enjoy a posed photo of themselves. I didn't get it at first lol.

WasItSomethingISaidSeptember 10, 2024

I still don't get it.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

I have literally never taken a selfie...so I am either a newborn or an oldie.

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

I have tried explaining to the youth that it wasn’t “cool” to take a picture of yourself. That was very uncool. Also: showing people what you were doing or where you were was considered bragging. Finding hidden gems and exclusive places and music that no one else knew was the goal of the 90s

TheSimbulSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself but I remember Bonnie Bell makeup, Lemon-Up shampoo and Dippity-do styling gel.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

Bonnie Bell bubblegum lip gloss! But you can only use it while wearing bell bottoms or OP (ocean pacific) gear. Maybe some Gloria Vanderbilt cranberry corderoys. lol

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

Lip Smackers! You just brought back a terrifying scent memory of this Bonne Bell fragrance I had in 7th grade. Oh help.

proudcatladySeptember 10, 2024

I have dippity-do! Bought it this year.

TheSimbulSeptember 10, 2024

It's still around?! Is it still in a glittery tub?

proudcatladySeptember 11, 2024

Mine isn’t

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember summer as a kid was spent running around the neighborhood barefoot until dusk.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

We didn’t roam barefoot, more on bikes, but we did have the run of the whole neighborhood including the cemetery at the end of our street. We just couldn’t go out onto one of the avenues.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I may be dating myself, but I remember paying for things with actual cash dollars, when cashiers knew how to make change. I remember paying for things with coins, even!

TortoisemouseSeptember 9, 2024

OMG yes! I remember when your change would be counted out into your hand, starting at the cost of the item, counting up to the money you tendered. Often finishing with a phrase like "and five makes ten!".

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

But what about those old Credit Card machines!? “SHUNK-SHUNK” as they pushed the metal thing across the carbon paper, making the raised card numbers appear!

Or “let me get my cheque book”

TortoisemouseSeptember 10, 2024

GASP!!! YES!!! In my first waitressing job I actually had to USE one of those to take impressions of "cheque guarantee cards" (remember those???) alongside hand-written cheques :-D

Dressed2K1llSeptember 10, 2024

“SHUNK SHUNK!”

😜

TSTat1400Ya girl SatanSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but my first crush was Richard Dean Anderson as MacGuyver. I was so distraught when I found out that TV shows weren't real life! (I was six). I was impressed with a man that could engineer a solution out of a paperclip and duct tape. I think that said more about me and what I'd grow up to do for a career than anything else đŸ€Ł

ToNorthSeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here but got a kids cassette player as a present when I was 10. Lol, miss that thing tho, had a speaker function too.

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

Omfg you just reminded me of the plastic kids record player my cousin had. We had a stack of records that were castoffs from the family, most of which were Christmas albums that skipped, I can still hear "I'm gettin' nothin' for Christmas" thinking about it đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž Also "I saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus" in which my family thought it was more appropriate to explain cheating than that santa wasn't real to me because of my age..........

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

Those things were brilliant, you could do so much with them!

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I’m dating myself here, but I remember watching the Simpsons on the Tracey Ulman show.

Oh, also : bottles for bottled water, and Bottled water in general, wasn’t a thing when I was a kid. We just were chronically dehydrated I guess - but I remember thinking “no one will buy water they can get from the tap for free”

formallyknownaswomanSeptember 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

They were water fountains that worked everywhere or a hose somewhere or you just waited until you got home and drank.

Probably saved us because there's no PFAS like there is in all of these water bottles.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 9, 2024

Water fountains and phone booths!

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 9, 2024

Omg I'm a teacher and the way kids are obsessed with having water with them at all times is crazy. I don't think I EVER even used the fountain as a kid.

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024

I don't think I EVER even used the fountain as a kid.

As a kid, I remember avoiding them despite being thirsty just because I dreaded needing to go pee at the "wrong" time, like in the middle of class or something. It was my worst nightmare to imagine a teacher not allowing me to go and it resulting an embarrassing "accident"; it was such an terrifying thought that I'd just try my best to ignore how thirsty I felt :(

BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

I was afraid of needing to go to the bathroom during class, because teachers acted like that was horrible to have to go. So a lot of kids didn't pee all day until they got home. I had a male orchestra teacher that threatened to give me a detention for being late to orchestra at 12 noon, because I had to go to the bathroom and change my pad in the middle of the day during my period. We only had 6 minutes for passing period and my school was gigantic with 3,500 students.

I told my mom about it, and she said "He has a wife, he has a daughter, he should know about those things". I told him "take it up with my MOTHER" and he dropped it.

I hated that clown for four years because he would put his daughter in first chair and she wasn't that good. I learned that nepotism wins over musical talent and hard work at an early age. It didn't matter how hard anybody worked, because he had his four favorites that rotated between the first four chairs and I was not one of the four favorites. I was in the back of the first violins.

This was when we had to wear an elastic belt with hooks in the front and back like garter belt hooks, and thread the gauze strips through the front and back of the pad. There were different widths, but that was all. There was no high tech absorbent gel or sticky backed pads. They would get bunched up in front. I also had to wear a garter belt and hose to school, because panty hose had not been invented yet or were invented shortly thereafter. Keeping all the layers straight was a real hassle.

My grandmother was born in 1898 and told me about sewing diapers to wear for periods in high school, because sanitary pads had not been invented yet.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 11, 2024(Edited September 11, 2024)

Sewing diapers

I read about that! I can’t remember who it was but she and her friends sewed them as a project in school.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 9, 2024

I was/am a germophobe so there was that, plus I didn't want to use the restroom at school either. The germophobe thing again.

Dressed2K1llSeptember 9, 2024

Also Do you EVER recall seeing a reusable water bottle before 1988?

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 9, 2024

Canteens đŸ€·đŸŒâ€â™€ïž if that counts

pellucidarSeptember 9, 2024

I had one! It doesn't count.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 9, 2024

Lol I didn't think so. Nobody hauled them around as a regular thing.

a_shrubSeptember 9, 2024

but I remember thinking “no one will buy water they can get from the tap for free”

Right? That was me too. But then we had a particularly bad spring run-off one year leading to flooding, and the tap water tasted like mouldy dirt. I drank bottled water for a lot of years after that.

I'd just recently got back to drinking tap water, but now we've had a water main break, and it tastes horribly of mouldy dirt again. With great resignation I'ma need to get some bottled water again :(

JeSoPazzaSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I used to go to aerobics classes. And my Nigel wrote his PhD thesis on the university mainframe.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 9, 2024

Jane Fonda workouts!

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

I don’t know which is worse: 1) that my dad gave my mother a copy of Jane Fonda’s Workout Book for Christmas the year it came out or 2) she and I studied it like the Bible.

hard_headed_womanSeptember 10, 2024

Oh, no! I like the videos! And remember those leotards? LOL

samsdatSeptember 10, 2024

I’m dating myself here but I remember when cable television channels were selected by a push button tray thing that sat on top of the TV.

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024

Did the knob on the front come later?

samsdatSeptember 10, 2024

No, the knob was first, but only for broadcast channels; the cable channels were controlled by push button (or slider, like a radio)

Here’s an example of one on Pinterest.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

The set-top box! We had one too, for the single year we had cable.

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 10, 2024

Oh wow, our TVs didn’t have that! They had the buttons built in. Then the remote came much later but that was when tv channels were not as numerous as they are now. And we had a VCR !

Lee-Side_September 9, 2024(Edited September 9, 2024)

I'm dating myself here, but I remember using letraset to make headers for my resume, which I would then take to the copy store to copy on to nice letter stock and get matching envelopes to mail applications.

AND Using Netflix to order DVDs through the mail on subscription basis.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

Nice letter stock đŸ„Č I remember the precious box my ex and I had of like 25 sheets of nice watermarked paper for resumes.

HoneycreeperBird LesbianSeptember 9, 2024

Yes!! The Netflix dvds in the mail. And when I was younger than that, the age of blockbuster. You know it was going to be one heck of a great Friday night when your parents took you to blockbuster to pick out a movie and some candy or popcorn

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 10, 2024

Netflix DVDs!! It was so cool getting them in the mail. I was originally subscribed to a competitor in the UK, I want to say Love Films or something? They also did dvd subscription and sent movies and shows in the post.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 10, 2024

I loved getting those Netflix DVDs in the mail. So exciting!

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

and a much wider selection! I saw these amazing Japanese weird films through netflix.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 10, 2024

There were so many old movies my mom got to share with me because of that. I loved it. Often I can't find them on streaming services or have to pay the rental fee on top of the subscription fee I already pay.

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

Def. Older films are the best. Did you see my list here?

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 9, 2024

Ok letraset is new to me, but of course there needed to be a font maker for the pre word processing days. Fascinating!! Also looking at pictures, yes I definitely threw some of these away from my grandparents things having absolutely no clue what they were lol

DarthVelmaSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here...but my first video game was Pong. I listened to music on 8 track tapes. We had a CB radio in the car that we used on cross-country driving vacations. I remember a world before Ronald Reagan was president.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I loved Carter! I went to the bicentennial in LA! It was my first concert. Helen Reddy and KC and the Sunshine Gang were the headliners. Loved me some disco rollerskating. I still dream about it!

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 9, 2024

Carter was the first president I was aware of.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

More women were appointed to the cabinet under Carter than ever before--or since.

ProxyMusicSeptember 10, 2024(Edited September 10, 2024)

I'm dating myself, but I remember when you had to go to a HCP for a pregnancy test and a positive test meant "the rabbit died."

I'm dating myself, but the typewriter I used in college and for a number of years afterwards was a portable manual Olivetti Lettera 32 with a carrying case in aqua, like this: https://furnishgreen.com/products/240729qb

Back then, we made copies of what we typed by using a sheet of carbon paper and a thin piece of "tissue paper" also known as a "flimsie": https://youtu.be/cSqzmAl8TDU?si=cfY4hTlw2SvOM8E-

I'm dating myself, but when I remember the days before photocopiers when we made multiple/mass copies of written documents using various kinds of devices known as spirit duplicators, mimeograph machines, stencil machines, ditto machines and runoff machines. Back then, it was common to call a copy a "dupe."

I'm dating myself, but the first big-name pop music stars I saw perform live were

this teenage sensation in 1964: https://youtu.be/X9Qy9EXaOo0?si=vav2Iqrj7hT0hhAK

this band in 1965: https://youtu.be/M6DfG7sml-Q?si=OrIlBgJvDghZwdOd

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

I think you won! Our elder ovarit statewoman! 🏅 I had an Olivetti, too, until a friend lent me his 'word processor' for my senior thesis.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

My mom had that Olivetti with that case, but in more of an olive green. I guess that’s the difference between the 1960’s and the 70’s.

BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

My mother was a legal secretary and got an IBM Executive with variable spacing, in 1955. The back space clicked in 32nds of an inch. You had to notice it and estimate where your corrections would go.

When I grew up I had an IBM Selectric. I was too fast for a manual typewriter. I could jam the type bars and make the Selectric ball burp. We didn't fool with a manual or a Smith-Corona electric.

OxyToxinSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but Beetlejuice and I are the same age. I had to beg my mom to rent the VHS at the 1-Day rental place.

[Deleted]September 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but...I wore those plastic sandals when they first came out...I mean, I got them at the discount store before they were a trend. Then when they became a trend, my sister realized I had worn them way before anyone else.

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024

You made jellies a thing!? I have so many blisters from 1994 to blame on you

ProxyMusicSeptember 10, 2024

1994? I thought jellies first became a thing in the early 80s.

WasItSomethingISaidSeptember 10, 2024

I think you're right. They came back in style in the mid nineties. I was in junior high and some girls started wearing them after we hadn't seen them in ten years.

FeministunderyrbedSeptember 10, 2024

That’s when I had them. Mine were clear, which was a little awkward. I wrecked them trying to stand on pointe in them. I was obsessed with ballet for a couple years.

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 10, 2024

Lol I believe you! Some of my memories of old stuff are because my family was super poor not because I'm older than 35

[Deleted]September 10, 2024

LOL, yes, all my fault!

WhichWitchAmISeptember 10, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but I remember when my dad brought home dot matrix art print outs. And not even the fancy kind with shading and nuance.

crodishSeptember 11, 2024

Fuck me it took me like 25 parent comments before I finally understood "dating" as in "I'm putting an age on myself here" and not "romantically involved with". I am SO dense. I was like "tf is this new in-joke why is everyone being single like nothing wrong and men suck but it's such a specific phrasing... ??"

I dated myself with that

Feminist_UsernameSeptember 11, 2024

I love this, thanks for the giggle, I apologize for confusing wording or idiomatic phrasing lol

Lemon_QuicheSeptember 9, 2024

I'm dating myself here, but one of the girls in my year 3 class had an iPhone.

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BeachBleachSeptember 10, 2024

Maggie!!

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